NO, we are real good friends. i've had serious relationships were i was faithful, honest, and just gave my all. and the men i dated just lied and cheated. it hurt me so bad that i just feel im a woman scorned and wont be able to get into a serious relationship again because this has happened to me sooo many times. i know you may think im wrong but in my world i can care two cents about how his girl or any other woman think. they screwed me so im going to screw them. do you agree? if you do or don't i really dont care im just interested in knowing who feel like me. keep in mind men i date are either someone's boyfriend or husband. obviously they dont care about their significant other so why should i. for the smart people i protect myself at all times, no diseases here.
2007-01-04 00:58:54 · 8 answers · asked by kindkayeye/im a chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is sad.... You insist on dating people that cheat on their partners? Is it not obvious, then, that you insist on dating people who are cheating on you? And even if you feel they dont (since they leave their wifes/girlfriends to come to you) have you ever had a talk with yourself and ask: "Do I really want a guy that would easily dump me for someone like me?"
I dont criticize you... I accept all as they are... but your words bring out a sadness in me and to me you are a person that is playing aggresively simply because she will not accept that she needs affection...
I trully hope you find the one that will give you this affection!
Best wishes...
2007-01-04 01:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by kaustikos1981 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what are you really getting out of all of this?..dont you realize that you are still being used and abused..being the woman on the side..you wont be getting any younger and one day you will see that life is passing you by. At this rate,you wont find a decent man to settle down with you will just have a bad reputation as being easy and keep attracting that sort of men ending up old & lonely. All people are different and its not fair to judge everyone the same from your past experiences..maybe it is the type of man in general you pick and you should try going for another type just to break the chain of it. I have had plenty of bad experiences with men myself and I will agree that it is very hard to put the past in the past and not carry the mistrust and hurt into other relationships but you have to try otherwise you will just miss out on life and the pain will always ruin any relationship you have. Maybe you are picking men that you know will only hurt you to save the disappointment ...I have done this myself and you dont get anywhere from it. Forget the past and make a clean slate..there are good men out there believe it or not they are just harder to find than the jerks that are a dime a dozen
2007-01-04 01:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because that's how men are wired. Just as us women are wired for attachment, men by nature are wired for DEtachment. Going back millions of years to the first cavemen, the males were hunters. The women were gatherers. This is how it still is. Not because of culture, but because of DNA. I am curious to know, whether the woman you are involved with now, has children of her own. you didnt mention it. I think people that already have kids are more likely to get involved with other people in a similar situation who also already have kids. No matter their sex. I myself dont have kids, and would prefer to get involved with a man who doesnt have kids. Not that I don't like kids, but I feel in a relationship we'd have better understandings of each other since we both dont have child rearing duties. If I got involved with a man who has kids, and they'd need him all the time, I couldnt quite understand that, because I don't have that lifestyle; see what I mean? Good luck.
2016-05-23 02:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by Penelope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all get hurt but that doesn't mean all men are the same. If you keep on doing what you doing now you will get more hurt. All you need to do is to take time and Heal from your broken heart when you feel it's enough now search for your Mr Right and in no time you will be the woman in love.
2007-01-04 01:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this is a real question then I'd say that your problems are larger and deeper than this. Seek help from a qualified therapist or counselor.
2007-01-04 01:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashammed of yourself. You go on and do what feels good to you but remember that in the end you will meet someone that you want to settle down with and he will already be taken, so you will never be happy.
2007-01-04 01:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
AT least you care about protecting yourself from disease--I can't say you care about anything else.
2007-01-04 01:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you are a woman then why do you have a man's picture?
2007-01-04 01:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Mizz.Purdy♥ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋