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Question

Does this qualify me as psycho.....?

I just searched a friend's (ok-- thy guy I've been sleeping with for 4 years) place of employment (on line of course) and found contact information (his work email address).................. then typed a brief message to the effect of : You should call me just to say hi...... and to ask if I can email him at this address?????

He only..... and I mean ONLY calls me when he's planning on coming over for sex............... this is his pattern over the 4 years. Prior to the sex.. we talked all of the time about everything under the sun.....

So does emailing his work address make me psycho????

Answer 1

So you e mailed somebody at their work address, and you want to know if that makes you psycho ? Uh........no. That is in fact normal behavior. What might make you psycho is THINKING normal behavior is "psycho".

Answer 2

OK, not sure about the psycho part.
You getting this obsessed with a man who OBVIOUSLY sees you as a "sex buddy" and nothing more isn't psycho but it does indicate some emotional issues. Stop sleeping with him (probably cut off all contact with him) and seek professional counseling.