Ok so after about 9 months the loml has reached a point where she feels as though shes not in love with me anymore. Now this didn't just happen overnight it was a couple of things that led her to this point. Last night we talked for quit some time and she told me that she loves me but shes not in love anymore. I know that I have done alot to push her away and they say you never miss a good thing till its gone well in this case Im hurting. I feel as though she is my soulmate. I asked her would she want to fall in love with me again and she said if I changed she could see it happening. My only question is what do I do? What do I say? How can she ever fall back in love with me after so much.
2007-01-04 00:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, its possible just have to know if your going to be able to work hard at something that may not come about. step back and re think things
2007-01-04 00:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really haven't stated what the problem was in the beginning so it is hard to say what you should do now to win her back. If you did things to push her away, why did you do these things? Did you not love her in the beginning or did you take her for granted because you really thought more of someone else? Think about what you did to push her away and do just the opposite now. Let her know by your actions that you truly care for her and think the world of her. Do the little things for her like opening doors for her and helping her with her coat, etc. Compliment her on the way she dresses and say things that make her feel good. Laugh with her and have fun together and put the past away and don't ever bring it up again for any reason.
2007-01-04 00:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First be honest with her. then it depends on what you did, but send her flowers,or love notes and the stuff she likes. Make the big changes you need to, and ask for another chance. but if you get her back dont start doing those things again, and dont forget how bad you now.
2007-01-04 00:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't bet on it. If you could change then it would only be for the short term and what happens if you can't maintain the changes? Is she going to leave again? I think you will only end up postponing the inevitable.
2007-01-04 00:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember sometimes the things you love ain't necessarily the right things for you! Think about it!
2007-01-04 01:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋