Is it biology?something to do with being a man?why cheat on your gf?do one night stands satisfy more than relationship sex?
2007-01-04 00:39:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(this questions is about GUYS it is not helpful to me to say that women also sleep around...I already know this and this is why we have the word WHORE, slag,****)
2007-01-04 00:45:55 · update #1
I believe its got to do with primary needs in a relationship for both men and women.
women might rank affection as number one - security, protection,comfort and approval all very high on the list for women, to be sent affection, to be told that your cared about to be told that your boy is proud of you , flowers, dinners, holding hands in public, typically early relationship stuff that women cherish, men will do to impress but over time for men becoming increasingly demanding, frustrating, tiring etc etc etc and for women these things also dry up like a well.
whereas oppositely men generally would rate sexual fulfilment as a primary need, look above and reverse roles in due course.
Its why both sexes cheat and probably also might explain why men would do it more often, tis a fine balance
2007-01-04 01:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok.... I want to be kind and give you an honest and helpful answer..... Guys get bored of riding the same old pony and fancy a change now and again..... Also everyone is on the look out for someone better than they already have...... Some times it is just a guy thing as it is percieved as good for a guy to have had a good few ladies before he settles down....The other option is that he is going off you..... or that he is just a cheating bastard....Some men cant help them selves and dont care about the hurt and upset it causes.....
I'm sorry for you ..... If it was me I would never forgive a cheat...... And dump them in the blink of an eye....
2007-01-04 00:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all of us do and for those that do you can probably find a girl that does the same.
It does boil down to the individual and if you meet the right person and they feel the same about you then neither of you will cheat.All that said guys are rubbish at commitment and even when a relationship doesn't appear to be working they will keep going out with their girlfriend whilst looking for the next person to be with rather than calling it a day.
2007-01-04 00:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by M M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys cheat for the same reasons girls cheat. One night stands are just to satisfy lusts which is completely different to making luv with some1 you love. Making love to someone you love is more satisfying. Reasons people cheat.
1. Bored in the current relationship, needs to spice things up a bit.
2. Someone who is attractive wants you and you know you will not get caught.
3.Low morals and desrepect for your partner because you know they'll still stick with you
4.Not getting any at home
2007-01-04 00:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by blondedarkie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This question seems similar to your last one ?Are you trying to find an answer to a question that you do not want to take the blame for? It appears you have been hurt here...sorry but it happens on a frequent basis to both sexes,A one night stand I personally don`t go for,I try & look further along that road that I hope one day will be a Cul De Sac.
2007-01-04 00:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This question seems similar to your last one ?Are you trying to find an answer to a question that you do not want to take the blame for? It appears you have been hurt here...sorry but it happens on a frequent basis to both sexes,A one night stand I personally don`t go for,I try & look further along that road that I hope one day will be a Cul De Sac.
2007-01-04 00:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some will say its a basic instinct to spead 'the seed' to ensure the family line doesn't die out.
i think its just because sex feels great!!
i personally think sex is better in a relationship... but i guess with one night stands the guy could do what he wants and never have to see the girl again. could be the girlfriend isn't satisfying him right....
2007-01-04 04:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds dumb, but men as a product of instinctive nature are programmed like most male beings to seek out partners and sexual conquests. Our natural competitiveness and urges to 'conquer' not only make us want to sleep around but also make it a point of applause and achievement in the eyes of similarly minded men.
Why cheat on our gf's? well like you say, women (statistically) cheat on their partners to a very similar degree to men, but men do it, i think, because of this instinct, the natural curiousity and because we as a gender can seperate emotion from our decision making easier than a woman and therefore the full consequences of our actions are not always at the forefront of such conquests.
2007-01-04 00:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand why men do it either but i have to say that women do it 2!!! what i dont get is wen men say 'yeah shes a right slag' and then as soon as she drops her pants he f*** her, so really men dont care who they sleep with as long as there getting something and they dont care who its with either. women are just as bad though, i personally would never cheat, i dont see the point if u dont like the person ur wiv then y be wiv them and hurt there feelings. women are bad 2 though i know just as many man as i do women that wud cheat on the partner and its bang out of order!!!
2007-01-04 00:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when a man is young he need to have a variety of woman and when he gets a little older and wiser and more mature if he is a good man when he falls in love he will be faithful. Other men are insecure and self centered and they will probably not be able to ever be faithful to one woman.
2007-01-04 00:46:14 · answer #10 · answered by ALI 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋