I'm seeing someone long distant, he called me but I was busy so didn't answer, bout 40mins later, I sent him a text saying "Hey, Call me. x" And I sent that text bout 8 hours ago and he hasn't called me. What's worse, I saw that he was online on MSN messenger and he didn't even send me a message. I know he got that text message, I'm supposed to be going down to see him on 19th Jan, thinking bout cancelling the whole thing to gain more respect maybe. What's he playing at? Does he want to be in control?! If he wasn't interested, he wouldn't have called me earlier on!.
He hardly calls me, he waits like, 3/4 days to get in touch, he was like that when we first got together, and reminded me that the other day saying "he shouldn't have to change now!" that's why I didn't answer. I feel that if I tell him what's on my mind, he'll think I'm insecure! or over-reacting!
2007-01-03 23:58:31 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Out of all honesty it is hard to say what he is doing and why he doesnt call you more. To be blunt about and having gone through this type of relationship..... if he truly wants you and cares for you as much as you do him he would be more in tune with your feelings and give you the respect of at least a phone call more often or atleast some type of contact. To me it seems as if he is only worried about one person and that is himself. I mean if you think about it I am sure he may be busy but....... there is always time for a 1 minute phone call just to say HI and that he will talk to your more later! Listen to your heart and be honest with yourself! Don't get caught up in something where you are not treated the way you feel you should be treated! Also keep in mind Long distance relationships are really reaqlly tough! Keep you head up , be blunt and ask him what the Heck is his deal?
2007-01-04 00:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by tiffany s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the only one that he talks to on line, when you did not respond to the phone call, he just went on to the next one. Cancel and get with someone closer to home.
2007-01-04 00:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont want to be the one to say it but I will. I think thats exactly what he wants. He wants an easy way out but doesn't want to be the one to do it. So he wants you to get fed up and break it off. He does probably have someone there. My ex decided that the easiest way for him to break up with me would be to cheat on me with his ex. He knew I wouldn't tolerate it and I would leave. He told me that he didn't want to hurt me and didn't want to hear me upset when he told me it wasn't working. This could be his way out of it. If I were you I wouldn't dwell on it find someone closer to you that you can see more often and don't have to deal with wondering.
2007-01-04 00:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kat A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that is the case maybe there is no relationship. there always is a little give and take and change involved in a relationship. If you can live with it that is up to you but me I would want more out of it than that. good luck
2007-01-04 00:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww.. dont worry babe.
i think your over reacting just a tad.
dont worry, maybe he was busy or something.
but if he called, thats good.
dont cancel seeing him, because you guys are LONG DISTANCE!
dont throw away oppotunities to see him.
just talk to him about it, ask him if its on purpose.
and tell him how you feel.
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2007-01-04 00:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lor. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are insecure and I think you are under-reacting....he is using you.....and he is controlling.....he is interested when it is convenient and when he doesn't have something else going on.....move on with your life....he is only going to hurt you....good luck
2007-01-04 00:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes buys dam girl chill hell get to u when he can r he can be parting r what ever thats whats wrong with girls they have to may wrong idas.
2007-01-04 00:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he is playing you. Forget about him and don't waste your money on him
2007-01-04 00:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you sure he doesn't already have another girlfriend...?
2007-01-04 00:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by jsmonkey013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋