this bf of mine realy shocked me to tears when i saw that he wrote a message to a girl i didn't know about and it wrote" i'm not lying. u r a very sweet, charming,smart and beautiful girl." when i earlier asked this question 50% of the answerers advised me to give him a chance of expaination and then think. he says he's absolutely innocent and is even ready to discard everything related to the girl. he says she is just a friend and he loves me alone. what to do?
2007-01-03 23:39:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust him.....it's ok to have friends and it's ok to tell someone she is smart or beautiful...don't be so shallow.....good luck
2007-01-03 23:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
Umm...all I can say is that every guy is gonna tell you that he is innocent and he'll be like "Oh baby you know I only have eyes for you..." and all this BS. But from previous experience I've learned that most things they say are complete lies. You have to make this decision on your own and think about whether he really is innocent or whether you know that he is guilty. Personally, I would dump him because any guy that truly loves me would not do ANYTHING that would remotely seem like cheating.
Good Luck! ;)
2007-01-04 07:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by Texas <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is this guy?? if he loves you then if he knows that something bugs u then he should stop...if he doesnt then u need to kick him to the curb..there is no one more important and concerned about you more then yourself..just fill him out if he doesnt really care then neither should you...and plus if u can catch him doing that then he should be more slick about stuff if he is plotting anything but at the same time if he is being sloppy about what he is doing maybe it really isnt a big deal and he has no intentions with anyone but you...
i know that wasnt the greatest answer but maybe it will open ur brain a lil and help u out
good luck
2007-01-04 07:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by PoT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is the only strong base 4 a relation . u have seeked for a solution , means u dont trust him. trust your guy first. be true to him. then u urself can make out whether he is lying or saying the truth, when anyone speaks the truth, they will look into the eyes and speak, if ur guy speaks to u like that, then is he good. b clear in mind, then analyse him.
2007-01-04 09:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by spu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u re still bragging about him. didn't u ask first time a few days ago? and not 50% adviced u to forgive him, it was like 90% adviced u to leave him. so what, u re waiting that people will tell u not to leave him now? leave him and get over with it
2007-01-04 07:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is better to forgive him, atleast he appears sorry. If u dump him, u r going to pick up some other boy and he will also cheat you. All boys are the same. Better forgive this boy today or u will one day have to forgive some other boy for cheating u. Again u will be seeking our advice.
2007-01-04 07:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your history with him, if this is a one time event or he has a running history. Give him a chance if it's a first time, but don't' be surprised if you find yourself watching him or mistrusting him in the future!
2007-01-04 07:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by v 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably that is an infactuation . if u love him marry him these love may dissapear say this to him take a neural state .lets see what his attitude after 1 years if +ive say to me
2007-01-04 08:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jose K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your eyes open. he may be just being a good friend, but then you would/should know about her. If he is trying hid or lying about things then something is wrong.
2007-01-04 07:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush...!! keep your cool...!! and calm down..!! see around ! dont just play the blaming game yet..!! If he is innocent then you must be hurting him..!!
Study your guy subtly....! If he is doublecrossing ... you will know it soon..!!
And yes... in any situation... you must always forgive him...! If he is not innocent then I guess that will be his best punishment..!!
2007-01-05 00:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by Baski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says its harmless.. maybe he was doing in a friendly way.. maybe her bf just dumped her and he was saying that to help comfort her.. or maybe boys don't usually like her.. thats lots of reasons he could be saying that..
2007-01-04 07:43:28 · answer #11 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋