k, so there is this guy at work that I really like! But the only problem is, that he is the biggest player ever! But hes super sweet, and we are always flirting! I keep telling myself that hes not worth it, if hes just gonna play me like all the other girls, but I just cant seem to keep myself from liking him! What should I do?
2007-01-03 23:33:50 · 11 answers · asked by kassie07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with him and get played with.
Get away of him and keep your sanity.
Perhaps YOU should flirt with someone else to get over him.
2007-01-03 23:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by Canadian Wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what enables him to be a player... his sweetness and personality. Females are attracted to his "gentlemanness" because you don't really see that a lot these days. It basically supports the fact that he's a wold in sheep's clothing. Knowing he's a player and that you WILL get played, just don't allow yourself to get too emotionally involved. If you want to spend some time with him to see what all the hype is about, go ahead. But just be safe and make sure you practice safe sex if it comes to that. He's a player and enjoys the ladies. Take advantage of that weakness by getting a few free meals and free movies off of him. There's nothing that says you can't be a player, too. :-)
You will MIGHT have to give up some, though. :-)
2007-01-04 07:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by gabound75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that he's a player, then if you go with him you should expect to be played. Have some fun for a little while then expect him to quickly move on.
If you don't mind that, then fine. Just don't think that you're the "one special girl" who is going to make him change his player ways. You're not. No one is.
2007-01-04 07:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is fun. It's harmless. But don't date a player because that will end in disappointment.
Try to get your emotions under control or else you just might be setting yourself up to be hurt.
2007-01-04 07:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey listen,
A pimp is a pimp is a pimp.
Don't player hate, participate, and don't hate the player hate the game.
No time for hateration, you like the player for the same reason all us game players are loved by the bitties... We are good in the sack. Period. So quit stallin and give it up.
Even a real pimp needs love.
2007-01-04 07:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by Champ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is a good player if it is working on you and you aren't even doing anything yet! You are falling into a trap and you can't even see it! Wow.
2007-01-04 07:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by josey s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd quit talking to him... you already know he's a player. Most likely why you are falling for him, he knows what to say and what to do.
2007-01-04 07:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by Andre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moreover, what do you want? Are you looking to marry him or just have some fun, like casual sex etc? Decide what you want from it then act accordingly!
2007-01-04 07:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to go on a date with him and see what happens if he starts playing then get rid of him
2007-01-04 07:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by focus_e_us360 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it!...we only live once&you'll be 80 years old rocking in a chair saying "I shoulda,coulda,&woulda"
2007-01-04 07:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by strongchin1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋