If you love them truly and deeply should you pursue this "other" person if they are with someone else??
pretend that they already know that u love them they are just confused about what they should do
2007-01-03 23:15:38 · 13 answers · asked by PoT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people most def feel very strongly about this..she isnt married
i more recently told her i loved her
she is already in love with me (for awhile now) but she is in another relationship because i didnt act sooner....should i tell her then wait or back off completely...i mean i really really love this girl
2007-01-03 23:34:30 · update #1
love knows no boundary so continue trying things might change tommorrow and you be that someone.
2007-01-03 23:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by Akinyi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Even if you did steal them off the other person it's totally the wrong foot for a relationship to start on. If you think they like you too then you should maybe take them to one side and ask what's going on - if they like you too then you should tell them to come back when they're single. If not, then look at all the lovely single people out there!
2007-01-04 07:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by amazingtessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this situation before.
You need to tell yourself that you can't build your happiness on someone else's misery. Imagine being the other person and having this happen to you.
Statistically, there's a 95% chance it wouldn't last anyway. Save yourself the agony and ask yourself why you would be interested in someone that was unavailable in the first place?
Whilst they are with their mate they are never going to be able to give you 100% of their love and attention and who wants to settle for second-best?
2007-01-04 07:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, if the someone is married; you need to leave them alone, period. No good could come of busting up a marriage. If the someone is not, just let them know how you feel and back off. If they love you they'll come to you. Otherwise you'll need to move on.
2007-01-04 07:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by Texas Pineknot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
If they are with someone there is little that you can do. Maybe you should move on and look for someone else. However, if you truly love this person, and you are sure that you are in fact "in love" with them and do not just have a crush on them, then you should talk to them about it. Is this person happy with their partner? If they are then I would just wait for a while, or if they aren't then talk to them.
Good Luck! ;)
2007-01-04 07:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by Texas <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't because their taken... put yourself in the other persons place, would you really like it if you had a girlfriend and a guy tried to get with her and she wanted that too.. think like that and you'll change your mind real quick and you should know that a woman who leaves her man for another will most likely leave him too :) :) :)
2007-01-04 07:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not love that's lust. Love is mutual devotion. Don't go chasing women/men who are obviously not interested.
Sorry to be so blunt. Somebody needs to tell you eventually.
2007-01-04 07:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the same way as this question,but i would say no..cause your invading a relationship,and that would make you wrong.
regardless if the relationship is good or not.
2007-01-04 07:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by kenshiro_0002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretending will get you no where. Face reality and move on.
2007-01-04 07:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you sure you can make her happy than the present someone
go ahead and try but remember what is more important
2007-01-04 07:36:02 · answer #10 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋