ok, so i was talking to this girl for about a year, we wen't on a date or two and we shared a long distance relationship during most of that year. i left on deployment for the Army. we made a deal that we would tell each other if we met someone new. well after about 6 months she did meet someone. she told me. then 2 months later i come home on leave, she tells me she still wants me, and i kind of wanted her still. i ended up hooking up and falling in love with this other girl who i am currenty talking to. do you think i owe the first girl any kind of explaination or do i even need to tell her i am now involved? she is still in love with me i think. what shoud i do?
2007-01-03 23:08:10 · 9 answers · asked by monkeyfingerslap 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow...what a soap opera. You definitely have to tell the first girl if you are in love with someone else. You don't want to lead her on, and have her think you still like her. If you don't tell her and just go on taking to the girl your in love with and you don't tell the first girl, you are just wasting her time. From the way to talk about her, she'll probably be a little heartbroken at the beginning, but that will get her on the road to healing. I hope the situation works out for everyone!
2007-01-03 23:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by PYT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell her she was honest with you when she met someone you need to do the same. With the way things have been working for the two of you it sounds as though the time just has not been right. Honesty is the best policy. Best of luck to you
2007-01-03 23:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,never,never keep anything inside ur heart which has great value,"The worst prison is a closed heart" and its true coz u get sum chances only in life wer u can say those things which u need not regret in the future sayin"If i had only one more chance.........".That's not the way it goes,tell it to her,u luv her.Best of Luck.
2007-01-03 23:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by WillYouPleaseFUCKOFF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she started it. so u owe her nothing, but as a decent guy as u, i am sure are, u have to inform her u met someone else, so she won't hope for getting u back
2007-01-03 23:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made the deal to tell each other if you met someone else so call her
2007-01-03 23:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she got with someone and that should be the end of it for you.. now you have someone and that should be the end of it for her.. obviously this means that yous are not meant to be together.. just tell her the truth :) :) :)
2007-01-03 23:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would the truth is always better...... and so how ... they will find out anyway. So thats something to thinng about.
All good tho
2007-01-03 23:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by Micko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be truthful and honest about what happened.
2007-01-03 23:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say that u should be honest and tell her if she loves you. if u don't tell her you might hurt her. be honest=]
2007-01-03 23:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by .boo.boo. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋