she never called once and made the relationship onesided and hung out with guys too much, I called her and told her about how I feel but in a horrrrrible way, it sounded like I was giving her new policies it was our first fight and now its over. I never told her how I rreally feel, should I tell her I love her or will I scare her away? I told I agree we should just be friends and I understand why she broke up. but I don't want to be friends..
2007-01-03 21:56:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont understand how you can break up over one fight?
If you two were solid together, you wouldnt break up over a fight, let alone your first one.
Im sorry, but from what you've told me, it doesnt sound like she was too interested in you. If she never called etc, then I dont think she liked you as much as you liked her.
Maybe you should try and get over her? find someone else! someone who will appreciate you.
2007-01-03 22:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by RLJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pace yourself here and take the time first to just be friends. She won't have appreciated how you broke up and will need time to get over it. If being friends works out well, then see how she feels about being more than friends. If she's up for it, and it goes well for a little while, then you can talk about love.
If you tell her now, it very well may scare her, or it will sound insincere because of how you treated her in the past. If you do rekindle the relationship, talk about the things she does that bother you in a non-horrible way, like explaining how you feel when she does these things rather than laying down laws. Relationships are meant to be about equal respect and compromise.
2007-01-03 22:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by KyLeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm soo sorry that you've been put in this situation! It's completly harsh and i really wish i knew what to say. I know that forgetting someone i a lot harder to do than say! So I'm not going to say that; Instead the truth; He doesn't deserve you. To be toying a girl along for that long just to break their heart like that; I don't even know what could have been going through his head. I really want to help so will be putting some thought into this answer and updating it soon. Good Luck!! I REALLY hope everything turns out alright.
2016-05-23 02:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont express your feelings rightnow give her some time and i would advise not to even show that you are following her or anything of the sort to even patch up as friends. you will not loose her neither as friend nor as a future partner .she will understand that you have a difficulty in expressing your feelings and fumbled many other things but not the exact words to express your feelings .after about 7 to 8 days time give her a casual call to start off the comunication.be slow in your approach slowly you can show your love for her because now when it restarts it will not be just a friendship thot in her mind cuz even she has got the clue by now about your feelings .so let it grow and get understanded naturally .
2007-01-03 22:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES you should tell her how you feel.Everyone makes mistakes and sometimes deserve second chances.We learn from our mistakes! You should tell her how you feel, dont hold your feelings in bottled up inside.You may live your life wondering ''what if'' or ''I should have told her''. Who know? you guys may end up back together! If not you know you did all you could to save the relationship! Besides if she was doing things that didnt make you happy or you disagreed with and she wont change them for the sake of your relationship maybe she just wasnt the girl for you! best of wishes and good luck on your decision!
2007-01-03 22:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should talk to her first, find out how she feels on the entire situation then if it feels right say that you need to tell her something. If she accepts than you my friend are a lucky guy, if she denys your love then live in remorse for a while and then move on. Not the easiest thing todo but it probably would be the best.
2007-01-03 22:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u was once in a relationship with her right. so u should have tell her you like her and let her know.
she never called you? i guess she doesnt like you if she hung out with other guys and didnt tell you about what she did with them.
If you want her, you have to start all over again. Try to make her love you. Impress her. Ask her out and dont be boring. Make her want to say that you are hot! You got so much to do to make her love you... gd luck
2007-01-03 22:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by lizze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You messed up.... I'd say if you really love her, you'll persist and if you truly do love her, you won't stop trying to win her back, cause you were being mean. And just because she hangs out with guys doesn't mean anything, probably means that she has more feelings for you, to not make you "just a friend" like her other guy friends.
2007-01-03 22:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like her then go ahead and tell her maybe u will get together atleast there r chances and if u get together then learn to adjust and if u have any problem with her behaviour don't be rude try to help her out not scare her away.Go ahead and tell her
ALL THE BEST 4 WHATEVER U DO
2007-01-03 22:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only wasting your time. Save yourself the embarrassment. Women mostly are on the lookout for something better. Often they drop you like a hot potato. There are nice ones out there and its them that keep me from quitting.
2007-01-03 22:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋