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Question

I know much more about him & he too bout me. He knows bout me through my bro & I know bout him through him. I'm 23 he's 27.

I really like him. I have posted my previous question regarding help.

Please suggesst

Answer 1

I don't see any problem with him I think problem is with you. You are too excited with all this. If u will not control yourself, u will get ignored even more.

U have de-valued yourself. Respect yourself. Means if u will offer yourself too much u will get discounted. It happened to me. I've learned it through experience, u better learn it from my advice.

Important 1:

Just be yourself. Don't do anything out of the way for him otherwise you will get yourself hurt. Dont give too much importance to anyone, otherwise people start over-valueing themselves, it's human nature.

Important 2:

Since you mentioned your brother knows that guy, do whatever, but never think of cheating ur brother. It really hurts and makes a permanent dent. Your brother can never hate your liking. This is too early though. But when ever your relationship grows with your guy, take your brother into confidence by asking "Whose this guy (guy u like), that will tell you,your brother's point of view about that guy, which is important to some extent.

(I know, my suggestion is out of the way, but I told u beacuse I've gone through this, some offenses are un-forgivable).

I hope that u will pursue your dreams mindfully with patience and commitment.

Thanks for posting this question.

Answer 2

Things are loud & clear now. You are 23 and he is 27 and he is your brother's acquaintance.

He is a nice guy and probably he loves you too. But the issue bothering him might be the fact that he knows you through your brother. He could be worried that your brother might not approve it and look at it as a breach of trust & faith.

I stick to my previous answer. Honour his decision. Wait a little and then ask him about it. If you are really in mutual love and the only issue with the guy is his acquaintance with your brother and related matters, you should be required to talk to your family members, including your brother.

Good Luck

Answer 3

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Answer 4

I will help u!....

Answer 5

thanks....