hi,i suffer from the ability of making a decision.
i have no time management skills.even if hv all the time available i still wait for the last moment why. i am very casual during the planning also
2007-01-03 21:25:10 · 3 answers · asked by vijay n 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Ok, first, ask yourself why you have a hard time making decisions.
Is it because you don't trust yourself to make the right one, because you are afraid of making a mistake, afraid of being critized?
If the answer is yes to one or all, you may have been conditioned by your parents to be this way.
I suggest you do this; understand that you are capable of making decisions. That we all make mistakes, that is how we learn. That getting information, whether talking to people you trust that have the information or researching yourself, will help you to make informed decissions which will put you more at ease.
For example; I wanted to buy a new lap top a few months ago. It had bee 5 years since my last purchase and technology has raced on and I had no real idea what I could get now. So I went to the library and looked at the latest Consumers magazine to see what they came up with when they tested some lap tops. I also visited sites that computer geeks frequent to see what they had to say too.
I educated myself, got the info I needed to make a good decision. And I made a GREAT decision!
For time management, like anything else, you have to push yourself. Make a schedule, stick to it, keep a calender, whatever, to help you out. Watch where you tend to get side tracked, nip that in the bud early.
Give yourself a month to change these habits, really work at it. Read some time management skills books. If you find you are still really not where you want to be, speak to a counselor.
2007-01-03 23:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're not confident guy. It seems to be lack of concentration,shouldering away the responsibilities.You just think over the achievements of man,and what make him to do so ?I hope you will understand your role.
2007-01-03 21:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by bigboss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Go to a yoga guru. Start practising yoga. you will definitely overcome this difficulty.
2.Read 'Geeta' daily a shloka. This will also help you.
2007-01-03 21:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by neela m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋