Women! Ur husband is cheating on u.U have no proove but u know he is.What do you do?

Answer 1

Establish the facts before you get completely and utterly heartbroken. How do you know he is? he won't touch you or is acting too nice to hide his guilt or running out of the room to get dodgy calls or being late home from work?? is that what is going on? if so, be blunt and direct with him - sit him down and say look I just need to know if you have cheated on me I would rather you just god damn said to my face then continue to make me believe so- I know you won't tell me if you have cos we are married etc
but I would appreciate it more if it is the case - then describe examples of how he has changed which is leading to your insecurity - if he says he has cheated but you still love him - find out why - what made him stray? was he bored with the way things had fallen into some sort of routine - it doesnt excuse him doing it to you but for your own peace of mind - determine all the facts - you sound a bit upset and possibly angry and rightly so - betrayal is never easy to take. I was once cheated on with a guy who was seeing 8 other women behind my back - my phone broke and he gave me his but he forgot to delete his txt messages - instead of going into a jealous rage!! and getting angry in the normal way...I calmly handed back his phone - he really got nervous when he realised I knew what he had done - then I said dont worry I am leaving you - because you play with fire and I think some other women will get her broom brush and kill you on my behalf - bye bye - you have lost me..then walked out and he is still begging me 2 yrs later to get back with him!! Look ladies, I once read that 64% of men are tempted to have sex or fancy your best friend!!!!! which is a huge percentage so best thing to do is identify what triggers your man to do such behaviour - or just give him too much sex that he can't cheat on you as he will be too tired ;-))))))

Answer 2

Always trust your intutution it is never wrong! A woman knows when he man has gone astray. The sex is different the body scent or odour which you will notice if you been with that person for a while. a scent that is created between you two will change the second he had or has been with the next person and its your intutution that it usually triggers off. Change in behavior for example now he doesnt want you to answer his cell phone anymore he has become secretive he has the lamest excuses to where he was and has a bullcrap story already made up and you can tell because it sounds rehearsed. He will get family and friends to cover for him if possible by saying he was with them but yet when you call him back their a few mintues later they say he has gone. Those are just a few. eventually he will screw up and you will catch him.

Answer 3

First answer the below mentioned questions yourself. Ask your self the following questions.

1)First of all , how did he cheat on you?
2)Is there anything missing in you?
3)Why and how he got the thought of cheating with you?
4)Were you not keeping your husband happy ?

One of my uncle is very very handsome . His family forced him to marry a girl who is not even 30% good looking. During their intial stage of marraige,he use to not go home early thinking he has to see his ugly wife's face. But my Aunty never complained about it. She gave him everything on earth. Within 2 months of their marriage, my uncle's attitude towards her was completely changed.
He started loving her like mad. They have two kids now. And are living happily from past 15 years.

My suggestion to you is , then finding fault in your hubby. First check in you , what is missing in you that made him go away?

Cheers,
Joe

Answer 4

Its hard to tell if he is cheating on you.
have you been feeling cheated lately, have you asked your self why? do you feel that way
and why you husband may cheating on you...
its very sad, I wont like to be in your shoes but I guess it happend to any woman at any point.
Think that you may only feeling jealousy, or if is really truth then start thinking to move on, that man is not for you, even if he was he lost trust on him and that will be hard and impossible to recover, or maybe he is just playing around? I guess is like alacohol or any other bad habit, think or get counseling to organize your thougths what you could do if your husband getting those habits can you really help him? can you really get him back? is he able to receive help?

Answer 5

First obtain some proof ..before you jump in at the deep end ..but if you are 100% sure he is having an affair ..then confront him ..if it is his first time ..forgive and forget etc etc etc....but if this is a Constant occurrence
dump the looser for what it's worth

Answer 6

Be patient. Until you have proof, he will continue to lie about it. Find a way to get proof, then present it to him. He'll have no defense and no reason to lie after that. They can lie their way out of anything so the answers in the proof. Good Luck!

Answer 7

Well first of all, if you have no proof but know he is, that sounds like paranoia. The only way to eliminate your own paranoia and to actually find proof is to reveal truth. In hard times, what usually reveals the truth? Think hard to yourself.

Answer 8

Hire a private investigator or enlist some friends and follow him yourself. Take pictures and confront him with proof, or save it for the divorce proceedings.

Answer 9

I wait until I'm not menstral anymore & realize he's too scared to cheat on me no matter how flirty he may seem. Honestly if he is cheating on you then leave him. Nobody should put up with that crap.

Answer 10

If I know he is but need proof, I would find a way to catch him and then dump him...good luck