do a lot of married woman or some ever get pregnant while having an affair and try to pass the child off as the child of her real husband by never telling him? anyone know anyone this happened to?
2007-01-03 21:16:36 · 9 answers · asked by tim r 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
God bless.
2007-01-08 16:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother "claims" to have done this with me and my sister. Do not really know if she is telling the truth, she is a liar. And even if she is then I could care less because I have the best dad.
I do know of women who have done this without any problems. I don't think it is the right thing to do, but really all that matters is making sure the baby has a good dad. And DNA doesn't MAKE a dad. Being there for a baby makes a daddy.
The only problem with this is what if the husband gets suspicious and wants a DNA test and the woman gets busted? What would happen to the woman and child then?
2007-01-04 04:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by flredneckgal_21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I dont know of anyone that has done this but I just want to give a piece of mind about this question!!!
the woman must be pretty stupid to do a thing like that...I mean come on you would think that gulit would eat you live...to make your husband think that child is his....IS JUST VERY WRONG!!!!!! and its not fair for the child either to think that guy is their father and than find out years down road if something was to happen to the marriage that he wasnt their father that would be hard for a child and the guy that thought that child was his to cope with!!!! it could also hurt the other guy that she had the affair with to never know that he had a kid and never got to be apart of the child life because the woman didn't want to say anything
Word of advice:
think before you go and do something. think about the other people you can hurt like.... the husband and the unborn baby!!!
2007-01-11 18:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens I know of an instance where a woman got pregnant while having an affair with her brother-in law. the husband never found out. ( talk about keeping things in the family)
2007-01-03 23:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by bisquedog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it maybe in case to case basis.. First, we have to consider that union of man and woman through the sacrament of matrimony is to procreate... a life... well... thats a part though.. anyway.. if there is an instance that they could not have a baby of their own, some parent (either mom or dad) may subject to have a child to other partner just to please their marriage. It would not mean having an affair with somebody and letting their marrige got worst but anyhow, it could be reasonable to the point of having a family with a kid. Its just a matter of option.. Somebody may have adoption as you hear the news. but on the part of the child, it maybe awful because someday they will learn everything. the motive is good but the consequences that may arise soon will not that good.
2007-01-03 21:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by elmer c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to my husband (with his ex). His ex-wife had an affair between their second and third sons. When the thrid son came out red headed, smaller and a little sickly, he began to wonder. Now you can stand all three boys next to each other, and totally see the differences. The third son looks nothing like the other two (large men, dark hair, eyes and complextion, tall, very italian looking) and then there's this short, white man with red hair, freckles.....
It doesn't take a DNA scientist to tell somethings amiss in that gene pool!
LOL....and for further proof, watch the Maury show!
2007-01-04 03:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by salemgirl1972 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it could happened!!! My cousin had a girlfriend since freshmen year then at senior year she told him she was pregnant and got married she had twins but the girl didn't look like him at all time pass by ( around 2yrs) they got divorce and she claimed child support and he was paying almost $400.00 per month for the 2 girls..after a year or so he was told that those little girls where not his so he ask for a DNA test and he was not the father so judge made the mother of the girls pay back for child support !!! It could hap pend but sooner or later the truth comes out !!!
2007-01-04 04:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it happens all the time.
In fact I'm almost positive I know someone who has done it, but I wouldn't be so rude to ask her.
There is another lady I know whose first two children look nothing like the other three. Yet they all have the same father. The three youngest only look like the father - the first two don't look like anyone in the family.
Kids most often take after their mother in appearance - but as they get older you will be able to see for sure if you can see the father in their faces anywhere.
DNA testing can clear up doubts pretty quick.
2007-01-03 21:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by quay_grl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure this is possible if a woman is having unprotected sex with another man as well as her partner. I have heard through the grapevine that this has happened a few times to friends of friends.
2007-01-03 21:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mishell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋