2007-01-03 21:14:51 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yikes! Not a good idea. You don't want your child being conceived in a lie or deception. Your child is already going to be born in a world with too much dishonesty. At least think about it. You don't want to trick your boyfriend, that is so, not right. What if when he finds out he runs. Are you prepared to support your baby until he's 18. Your boyfriend will have to pay child support to you for a baby he didn't agree or even know that you were planning all along. He has no say so in this. Are you trying to get pregnant so he'll stay with you? Like I said Yikes! Not a good idea.
2007-01-03 21:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you're trying to get pregnant by your bf I don't think you should be trying to get pregnant without the father knowing or consenting if it's something you're TRYING to do. An accident is different but you're gonna be lying to him. Fair enough you've made the decision for your life but you might be ruining this guys future by a stupid decision like not telling him you're trying to get pregnant. Don't put him (and the child) in an awful situation like that.
2007-01-04 05:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by purplebuggy 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Just because he donates the sperm doesn't mean he will stick around and be there for you and the child and by tricking him you are actually giving him a good excuse for not wanting you in his life anymore, which is not fair the would be child. Are you really ready to raise a child all by yourself?
2007-01-04 05:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Whoa honey! Please don't fulfill that awful girl stereotype of tricking a man into having a baby. Do you want to start a new life with dishonesty? Talk with your man, see if he is in agreement with your future plans, and if not, find someone new who is. You have plenty of time, don't rush this. If you're determined to have a child without your partner's consent, go to a sperm bank instead.
2007-01-04 05:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by KyLeth 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Very Bad Idea. Kids are "FOR REAL" not a play toy. You should never have a child under those circumstances.
Please Rethink.
2007-01-04 05:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lo 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It has to be his choice as well. You do want your child to have a father as well as a mother, don't you?
Basically, you are being dishonest and cruel, and the embodiment of many men's nightmares.
I just saw one of your answers, where you said your sister has fraudulently obtained child support from a man who may not be the father of her child (and is definitely NOT her husband), so apparently being a complete skank runs in your family. I feel bloody sorry for this baby when it arrives.
2007-01-04 05:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
The best way to have a child, is out of love, not by tricking someone into being a father...You need to think this thru..........
2007-01-04 05:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Grow up first. if you want to dump your boyfriend becuase you met someone that is richer then maybe you are seriously not ready to have a kid
2007-01-04 05:17:50 · answer #8 · answered by viciousmishious 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I pity your boyfriend - poor sod!
You get pregnant when viable sperm comes in contact with your eggs when you are ovulating.
2007-01-04 05:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start taking folic acid as this will boost ya chances... eat plenty of roast dinners ( most people i ask say it was the last dinner they had before they concieved!) and have sex quite frequently just blaming your surge in hormones! He wont complain!
2007-01-04 05:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋