which one do you consider worse?
2007-01-03 21:02:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pls try not to give answers like both or none. thank you..
2007-01-03 21:04:37 · update #1
i think the one by being used as a sex/flirting object is more painful!
2007-01-04 12:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Alaska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are painful, but you can change being a sex object if you really want to.
Straight up yourself, clear your mind and just refuse it. There are many nice people out there (think big or see the big picture). And secondly look for something which distracts you from those moments. Sitting down is not gonna help, move forward.
2007-01-04 05:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by John Th 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are equally painful i guess...
though losing love might hurt me a little bit more cuz i had it then i lost it..
but being used, hurts because i have been fooled.. it's more like realising that u didn't acutally have the love u thought u had.. and once u move on, u can take it positively as a comliment for being desired..
2007-01-04 05:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Deema 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on person to person. But it is more painful for me being used as a sex / flirting object for pleasure.
2007-01-04 05:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by aramaiya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being as an object is degrateing whether you r male or female it doesnt matter however losing love is painful but there are other loves better loves even never let urself be used remember this saying... The first love trail, the second fake love, the third fate or mishap. moral love is love but choose to be loved by someone who cares and who you care for also
2007-01-04 05:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by love_beauty_kindness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing love from the one you love is more painful, thats why people party hard. People rather flirt/ sex to ease the pain.
2007-01-04 05:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being used is definitely worse, because when you find out, it makes you feel like you've been played for a fool, and you wonder how many people have been laughing about you behind your back.
2007-01-04 05:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The second one...'Cause if you lost love it means you once had it and at least you have sweet memories...Being used in that way is far worse and you remain with a bitter taste.
2007-01-04 05:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by iunona_33 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Losing love from the one you love
2007-01-04 05:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by Nats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without question being used as a sex object for peasure
2007-01-04 05:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by 8TGFE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋