2007-01-03 20:57:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends really. if i didn't really like the guy and didn't look at him as anything more than a bit of fun, then yeah i would sleep with him on the first (and probably last) date.
if i wanted it to go further and i liked the guy i would hold back from having sex, just so a bit of respect can build up in the relationship. plus if you both really want it, when you finally get it it'll be hotter ;)
2007-01-03 21:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont understand why human beings think of its ok for a guy to sleep with a woman on fist date yet however the girls referred to as a tart ive been in a relationship for quite a few years now and that i slept with my b/f on first date. My moto is that if ya cant beat them connect them
2016-11-26 02:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done it, it really depends on the connection she feels with you, I'd take it as a compliment. She obviously trusts you and thinks your a stud. So don't screw her over, she's probably already thinking "omg does he think i'm easy now?" And let her know that you liked how you guys slept together that soon. Not all girls are sluts because when they like someone they want to express it in a physical way.
I say everyone to their own, if you both feel nothing wrong was done, then Good luck together :o)
Tell her too, she's probably thinking she did something wrong.
2007-01-03 21:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Jesus someone's a bit of a slag! You couldn't hope to build a relationship on an encounter like that, you're just moving too fast. Most guys are always up for a no strings shag but most girls have dignity and unless their drunk or seriously easy they wouldn't sleep with a guy on the first date.
If i thought i had chemistry between me and i guy, i wouldn't break it by sleeping with them when we barely knew eachother.
2007-01-03 21:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by Steph 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I did that. So what? It takes 2 people to sleep together, and they were consenting.
Can't say it was that blissful though. And it never lasted more than a few more kicks at the Repeat button.
2007-01-03 21:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
As a guy i would think it great ,but would have far more respect for her if she made me wait.
If guys are that desperate there are girls out their you pay called prostitutes ,if you give it for free to someone you dont know your a slapper.
2007-01-03 21:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by wozza.lad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a hard one on one hand its self respect on the other girls like to have sex to so if you don't tell anyone, then again did you want a one night stand case i think that is the way it always ends after sex on the first date
2007-01-03 21:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i havnt slept with ne1 on the first date, personally i wud prefer to get to no sum1 beta b4 i do that, but as long as u both feel comfortable then theres no problem with it xx
2007-01-03 21:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1971 did it. Still married to her 33 years later. Happily ever after and still having great sex!
2007-01-03 21:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jon 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't sleep with a guy on first date...But I don't think you are to be blamed...
2007-01-03 21:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by iunona_33 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋