Should I tell my best friends boyfriend that she has been cheating on him with this other guy. She says she still loves him (her boyfriend)...
(you have to think that when i say cheat i dont mean sex just everything that leads up to sex)
2007-01-03 20:50:11 · 9 answers · asked by hottiewatchout 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before you tell him have a talk with her. Ask her if she loves him how can she put herself in the position to be tempted by other men. Ask her how she would feel if she found out he did the same thing.If she see its wrong for him why cant she see its wrong for her/ After you get these questions answered from her watch her behavior after she has thought about it. If nothings changed on her part think long and hard before you tell your friend. He may not beleive you and if not you have told him. Dont keep harping about it to him-He;ll find ou eventuall for himself.
2007-01-03 21:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it's none of your business. That being said:
Secondly, if they aren't sleeping together, it's not cheating.
Thirdly, why don't you have a life of your own that's occupying your spare time from work, school, etc. so that you don't have time to get involved in other people's affairs and cause grief that will only come back to bite you in the azz??? Learn to see things without always commenting or even acknowledging that you saw them...
2007-01-04 04:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Never betray your friendship unless she is doing an act that would put her b/f in grave danger. Stay the heck out of it.
One day, this too will have a way of working itself to the foreground and it will be dealt with then. Until that time comes, find something else, besides your friends business, to put your 2cents in.
( if she is not having sexual intercourse with the "other man" the grave danger points shoot to 0.) Stay out of it and keep your mouth closed.
Remember what your momma use to say?...."if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all."
2007-01-04 04:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think you should stay out of it. What good would it do for you to tell him? It will only hurt his feelings,or make him angry. And how will your best friend fill about you informing her guy about what she is or isn't doing? Some things are better left UN said, and why should you be the bearer of bad news? What's really in it for you? Do you want them to break up? Do you want to date this guy? My advise is to stay out of it, people always show there true colors, and when she does hopefully he'll see them....
2007-01-04 05:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sha T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's your duty to tell him, you should maybe convince her to tell him. He would want to hear it from her, its crap hearing through the grape vine...
Good luck... You are a nice person. You should maybe get some nice friends though
2007-01-04 04:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kandice 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be faithful to your friend. If you can't trust your friends who can you trust?
If he cheats on her, then you need to tell.
2007-01-04 04:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by Nats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, I think you should talk to her before you do anythi
ng rational seeing that she is your bestfriend, I don't think you want to lose your bestfriend.
2007-01-04 13:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by thirisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, he should know..and maybe reconsider who your friends are..she is a cheater.
2007-01-04 04:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you should just mind your own business.
2007-01-04 05:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋