he is a drugiee and a gangsta but i love him so much?

Question

i seen this guy who had a crash on my road a few years back and i fall for him i manged to get his number so i rang himn and we strated talking to him he is a well know in my area so i ask people for infoemation of him and they tell me and when i speak to him on the phone i say i know this of you and he said he is getting scared because he thinks im stalking him and wants to link me to see wh he is talking to but im am scared because he is a drugiee and a gangsta and when i link him he will make people follow me and see where i live .im thinking he wouldnt like me but he said i dont care how you look but it obvious he wants to just see who i am however im even scared he going to change his numba but i love him so much i dont want him to and i cant bear to see another girl with him what can i do please i need help?he even told me he said hez life is a fast one because he can get shot any mintue and he said it up to you if you want 2 speand ur life with me why iy is he even givin bad poi

Answer 1

you sound like a drug head to so your perfect for each other

Answer 2

Look I know what you are feeling. I had the same. There is not many ways you can do this but you have to ask yourself this question, where do you want to be in your future? Do you want to be associated with druggies and gangsas for the rest of your life? Someone once told me "You fly with the crows. You get shot with the crows". I almost did. It was horrific. He didn't love me enough to change so I had to. Its not easy! But it had to be done. My life was on the line. So I left him, I left my job, I left my town and I went off and started a new life on a new clean slate. Its been 4 years and I still think about him but for all I know he could be dead. But I can promise you one thing, it was the best thing I have ever done with my life. I've made something of myself and I now have the best friends in the world and a beautiful man I love. I'm so proud and no-one can take that pride away from me. I look at my life now and I see a bright future, I don't see this unpredictable black hole anymore.

Answer 3

What an interesting and exciting young man, and I can see what you find attractive in him.

Ever thought of becoming a prostitute? You could sell your body for sex, and then give him half the money and both of you could get a nice bit of smack and watch telly together.

Then as your relationship develops, maybe he will get a fierce dog and let it s hit all over the house. And he can slap you about for not picking up the dog s hit.

I envy you, you have got so much to look forward to.

Answer 4

Luv, you obviously are just a kid, I'd say about 15/16? he just soundslike hes bragging to me, coz if he was anyone dangerous or anything then he wouldnt be shouting his mouth off about who he is an stuff! Sack him off girl! He probally just has a little dabble in selling drugs an reckon hes big time! you can do better love go find someone who adores you, as love is a two way thing!
take care chick!

Answer 5

You don't love him because you have never met him in person and you don't know him very well. He doesn't love you either, in a best case senario he is too high to understand love, in a worst case he is outright lying becuase he wants to have sex with you. If he has this kind of connection don't give him any personal details and get as far away from him as possible. Find someone worth your time.

Answer 6

If he looks like al pacino or robert de niro then go for it but if he looks like joe pesci then forget him and move on lol

seriously I would stay away you will only end up in trouble or worse, find a decent hard working law abiding man who will love and look after you, and treat you like an equal not a posession
Can you seriously see yourself having kids with this man???

Answer 7

WOW-if you play your cards right with this plank, you could get knocked up and be eligible for a council flat/house on one of the many dismal housing estates in this country! You could be dripping in gold and trinkets in no time at all, have the best brand name prams/pushchairs money can buy, drink the most expensive alcohol going, get yourself knocked up by all planks mates-and their mates-and mates of theirs, buy and steal brand named clothes for your happy little brood of council estate kids, screw the social for everything you can get...and STILL be able to keep a banned dog-(not as protection mind you-but as a mark of "respect" in your 'hood). "Plank" may slap you about a bit every now and again-want your body when HE wants it-(this usually occurs when there is a lull in the car jacking season...and its too cold to rob people-or hold-up the local natwest)-demand steak and chips every night-and generally just be a right royal pain in the butt whenever he leaves you for her majesty's pleasure-but hey, you will be quids in here any way you look at it-so i say go for it deary...catch him before some other council estate misfit girl does. Best of luck and much happiness to the both of you!

Answer 8

u do not want to get caught up in a life like that, u cud get hurt or how wud u feel if he did? u will find sum1 else who u feel the same for, jus forget about him and delete his num that will b the easiest way. xx

Answer 9

you are a drama queen. you don't "love" him. you don't know what you are talking about. your grammar proves it. you probably don't know it but you are just looking for attention, hoping to get it from this so called "winner" cause that's the best you think you can do. you are infatuated with someone who sounds like a total loser.

Answer 10

he'll just ruin your life. believe me. stay the hell away from him..you'll soon get over him anyway.
i tell you this, even you feel happy being with him(because you said you love him) you can never be satisfied in life and you'll be forever locked in the room of doom.