back in oct my girlfriend and i were splitting up her mother told her to "take our son and hide him because I would come back in the middle of the night and take him and she would never see him" which is NOT true.. she took our son morning of the 20th and hid him.. i left night of the 20th.. i tried to reconcile on the 21st for our and our sons sake yet she refused to tell me where he was.. as of the writting of this i STILL have no idea where my son is.. her mother knows yet refuses to tell me .. her friends know but she has told them not to tell me either..from what i have read on the internet it is child abduction and child abuse.. is this true and if so what can be done about it against her and the people helping her keep my son hidden from me.. i have never been abusive to her or my son
2007-01-03 20:42:21 · 8 answers · asked by joe b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
in oct i did call the police about this.. all they said was "he is with his mother so there is nothing we will do"..
2007-01-03 20:51:25 · update #1
it should also be noted she (my exgirlfriend) is about to have charges pressed against her for something she did to my oldest son (by other marrage) when he was 14 (he is pressing these charges)
2007-01-03 20:53:05 · update #2
neither her nor i have "legal" custody of my son meaning neither of us have gone to court and signed any papers
2007-01-04 09:16:35 · update #3
Look harder! go to the courthouse file for legal visitation send the paper to her last known address hell if you go to the courthouse and file the paperwork yourself it usually only costs a few bucks heck send paper work to the grandmama too get them all in court one way or the other!
2007-01-11 16:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by tina1rules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily child abuse unless hes being neglected wherever hes at. Sue her in court for custody. Chances are you will lose custody but she will have to produce your son for the judge to prove hes doing fine. Youll probably end up paying support but you will get at least supervised visits. The court could also order a social service investigation into the mothers family life to make sure its safe for your son to grow up in and all involved will be checked out and no one likes that. You can also notify the police and explain the situation and tell the police you fear for his safety. Shell probably come back at you with false child abuse charges but will have to prove them true in court and hearsay doesnt work. It has to be hard concrete evidence so you should be ok, then sue all for defamation of character. Good luck
2007-01-03 20:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the police said they can't do anything about it, do you really think someone on yahoo can magically produce your son for you? It may be unfair, but as an unmarried father, you have next to no rights, compared to the mother of the child.
The lawsuit your other child is bringing against her is a whole different issue and has nothing to do with the above.
2007-01-03 20:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's off to the U. S. to communicate strategies of combating comparable toddler abductions!!!! i for my section think of this occasion is unparalleled - has each and every guy or woman ever heard of any comparable toddler abduction instances the place a toddler replaced into taken in those situations? The McCann childrens are actual childrens - not dolls which would be positioned away whilst they at the instant are not required. a good concept in combating this back is to rearrange sufficient toddler care whilst having a night out. this is organic and easy common experience - the guy is a unfavorable excuse for a father.
2016-12-12 03:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Involve the authorities and child protective serves immediately!!! Call them right now as every second counts and you are the father so you have 50% right to the child, presuming there has not been any court settlement brought against you to give her full custody.
2007-01-03 20:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by Greg M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to FAMILY COURT and ask for your rights. Abduction is a Federal Offense. For abduction to occur you must have the legal custody of the minor. Then those helping her would be considered felons as her (accomplices).
2007-01-04 01:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to contact the police and they will work with finding your son
you have the same rights to your sons just as she does and if you havent been abusive to him she might just be because her mother got to her
goodluck
hope you find your son soon
2007-01-03 20:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by BrOkEn_LuLLabY...♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this matter to the police, as she has no right to keep your child from you if you are not a danger to him.
2007-01-03 20:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋