Help!!!!!
2007-01-03 20:41:31 · 23 answers · asked by Archie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU CHANGE THE NEGATIVE FEELINGS OF YOUR MIND. BE POSITIVE AND THINK POSITIVE.
2007-01-06 15:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I relate to your question, as I see, most of the people who answered also don't trust easily or don't trust anyone.
So we are all in the same boat - shall we sink or swim?
I always thought that trust was my own special problem and now I see that everyone is having the same problem. What's happened to us?
And yet, probably everyone here feels trustworthy.
How can I help you?
I suppose this cliche may help you - actions speak louder than words. Watch how a person behaves and then you will know what that person is truly like and if he is worthy of your trust. Don't listen to the words (that's easily said), watch what he is actually doing (that's the truth) and let that be your guide whether or not to trust him.
2007-01-04 07:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by happy inside 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth you cant really trust anybody.Family should be people to trust but depending on your family sometimes you cant even trust them! Dont bug yourself out over it though.You can have friends and tell them things and lead a normal life without having to worry about hunching over your shoulder checking to see if someone is standing behind you with a knife! Advice I can give you is feel your friends and people around you out.Learn about them, their past and where they want to go in life.It's not a sure thing it'll prevent you from getting heartbroken or back stabbed but it's a step away from it! Make sure you really get to know those around you and those who want to be in your life.NEVER tell someone your deepest darkest secret or something that you wouldnt really want somebody else knowing because once you do that your secret is out and theres no taking it back. Keep it to yourself, thats the safest place it can be.Besides once you tell someone a secret about you too many people already know! If they confide in you and seem like they are a good friend dont be scared to confide in them, but to a limit.Dont tell them who you're sleeping with or personal issues like that.You have a problem? Come on yahoo and ask or talk about it with someone online.You dont have to reveal your identity and its so confidencial! You'll be fine though, go ahead live your life sweety.Happy new years!
2007-01-04 05:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people are not trustworthy anyway so don’t worry too much about it. Perhaps you have not met the right people yet…you say you make friends but your heart has not yet opened its doors. That is fine; most of us open our heart very easily and end up paying a huge price. Archie just chill, sooner or later you will meet someone worthy of your heart, your thrust and your thoughts.
2007-01-04 05:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too learned the hard way...you can't trust anyone, sometimes not even yourself. To remedy the problem I then faced of not having anyone to talk with and share my feelings with...I started writing in a journal. When I'm done "throwing up on paper" I always feel better. Then I can choose what to do with the 'paper' I spoke to; burn it, mail it back to myself, mail it to the person upsetting me or tear it to shreds or share it with them at a later date. Any way I've chosen to deal with my feelings, in this manner, has been a positive one. Give it a try....talk to your head through your feelings, pen and paper.
Good luck!
2007-01-04 04:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Meg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U know always best friends cheat us. So dont trust them and dont tell them anything. But normal friends never cheat us. So tell them all the things.
2007-01-04 05:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Harshal M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your past experiences with confiding in people usually turned out ugly hence you feel that you cant trust anyone. But dont despair, there are lots of ppl out there who are willing to listen to all your problems(like yahoo answers).
Remember, you do not have to tell anyone anything if you do not feel like it.
2007-01-04 04:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by stiletto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it that way!!!!! People change constantly and in life if you meet a real friend you are the luckiest person in the world!!! I think that we should keep to ourself our personal thoughts to ourselves even if you have a relationship. I sure didn't tell the men that dated and my husband my past love history. It is mine only!!! You will be respected and more attractive to people, friends, a lover, husband when you're past is a mystery ! There is nothing wrong with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-04 05:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by marque1717 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...may b u had a bad experience wid somebdy really close one..who broke ur trust....thts the reason y u cant trust nyone....well dnt worry..once u find the right person u wil automatically trust them...it mite take time..n nwdays u cant trust nyone yaar...coz trust is broken so easily tht u find it hard ...later on hw to trust..n whom to trust...nyways take care
2007-01-04 12:21:36 · answer #9 · answered by Chweet_alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends are meant to be trusted or what is the use of friendship??
Anyway I am sure that the day you frnd a true friend you will learn to trust the person,
2007-01-04 07:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If anyone we cannoooootttttt TRUST - It's not FRIEND - It's not easy to find a genuine Friendship - not easy
2007-01-04 04:44:58 · answer #11 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋