i just got out of a relationship, well for the most part it was. i love this girl and would do anything for her. i realize that it's over for now, but what about the future, what are the chances? i'm not saying that i'm waiting for her, i'm just never going to stop loving her. we were everything a relationship should be except she would never call it one. she said it was perfect and she's told other people that, but she said something was missing. she never felt the way i do for her. we are now best friends and i'm happy with that. it's just hard seeing her i love with my friend that took the girl i was talking to before her.
2007-01-03 20:39:54 · 8 answers · asked by behind the mask 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweety when it's over it's over.I dont wanna sound harsh, but sometimes the truth hurts. She meant everything to you, but you didnt mean the same to her...I know what that feels like...IT HURTS! All you can do is move on with your life.You cant say it was everything a relationship should be because now you guys arent together.Whether it was her decision,your decision or a mutual decision it wasn't cut out to be.When you do get out there and fall in love with a girl that loves you right back the way you love...you guys get married..have children and live a happy life, thats when you can say THE RELATIONSHIP IS EVERYTHING IT SHOULD BE! You think you'll never stop loving her, but you will. To me it sounds like You deserve so much better then what she as offering you.Many women out there wish for faithful,loving men like you! Many women would give you the same affection and attention you give.It has to be 50/50, not one sided.Keep her as your friend, theres nothing wrong with that, but if you're longing to be with her I would remember exactly why you guys broke up.If something was missing and you was giving her all you could give her(sounds like you were) then something will always be missing! She needs to figure out what she wants. You shouldnt have to wait around for someone who wasn't satisfied when you were nothing but loyal and loving towards them. You'll find a deserving woman in need of a shining knight in armor! You'll look back and wonder why you even loved your ex so much! See whats out there, test the waters. She might just see one day what a really good chance she missed out on! Her loss :) Good Luck & Happy New Years!
2007-01-03 21:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what ended the relationship. You never know what the future can hold for you. If you two continue to be friends, she might be able to see that special spark in you again one day. Reality is that you need to just accept that you will only be friends. Ask her one day what she thought was missing between the two of you. Since you are still friends with her listen to what she says about other guys. The better you listen to what she is saying, the better your chances are at you two maybe one day getting back together. Just be happy that she still wants you as a friend. Don't blow that part.
2007-01-03 20:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by airtightreality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of what you are saying is a little bit hazy but listen not only to your hear but hers as well. If she does not have the feelings you expect to have for you you cannot force it.Doing so will only distance you even further from her heart. She may see you as annoyng or even grow to hate you if you persist.Be a good friend to her and in time someone will tnere for you that you deserve.
2007-01-03 20:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let this go and move on. dont settle for any crumbs she may be offering you, she will never be offering you ALLthat you want. no matter how long you wait. you feel now that you will always love her, but those feelings will fade with time, and then you will be able to find someone who will genuinely want to be in a relationship with you...
2007-01-03 20:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by splee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is over is over, man! Be brave and think this way - the person who is taking her now is just trying to drink from an empty glass which you already finished. Isn't it a glory?
2007-01-03 20:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by ngg_ghimire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it feels and you might as well stop thinking that someday it might happen again cause most likely it won't. If it was meant to be you 2 would still be together.
2007-01-03 20:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry but it is over.only .002 will get back together
2007-01-03 20:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck
2007-01-03 20:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by Greg M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋