I keep posting this question and it keeps being removed so I guess I will have to be less specific. My mom drinks a lot, and has for about 8 years...in the last year she has also become addicted to another type of very dangerous drug also known as the "club drug" ..I know, it's a horrible combination, but there is no stopping this woman. I am only 18, but I have lived on my own for 3 years now, and I am emotionally unable to spend more than a few days with her, as it makes me sick to see what she will put into her body. I also have a younger sister who is 10 years old..who I am worried about, but I do trust that my mom would never harm her. She has tried several rehab clinics, Alcoholics Anonymous, and counselling..but anytime she's quit..it only lasts for a very short period of time. She thinks that because she owns her own business, she can hide behind that and nothing else matters. Can anyone give me advice?
2007-01-03 20:18:42 · 4 answers · asked by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Child Protective Services is not an option for my sister. I have been through their system most of my life, and I would not wish that life upon anyone..as it is not at all helpful as it may seem to be.
2007-01-03 20:49:04 · update #1
My mom also has no relationship with her mom and dad...they are there for her, but my mom will only speak with them as long as it isn't about her problem. Everyone around her including friends, and other family members have given up on her and pretty much disowned her long ago. I am all that she has left...and to be honest, I know that at this point..she cares about getting high/drunk more than her 10 yr old daughter..and has willingly given her up to my grandparents, and other friends..this was when she was drunk of course, but it has gone so far that all she wants/needs is her drugs. She hardly even eats anymore.
2007-01-03 20:59:28 · update #2
Listen,....it is too bad you cant have your little sister come stay with you...it sounds like your mom does want to quit, but she is weak...you need to go to one of the meetings with her, and get a bunch of people on your side, her mom and dad, an ex husband, anyone who would not be her enemy, but her friend as you can't do this on your own...tell her that you love her, and that you don't care what she thinks, but if she don't quit it, you will call the authorities on her, for child neglect and have your little sister take n out of the house....( at least tell HER this)...and then, you both need to pray as hard as you can on this, for strength, and through the Lord, Jesus Christ, pray for healing..because He is the only thing that is going to stop her before she does herself in...I am so sorry, this is horrible for you to have to deal with...I know that she is just weak, and I bet a fantastic person...anyone who is running her business and hiding it, will be found out it's only a matter of time....Take care...and I agree about CPS...go talk to a church group...try NOT to go there if you can avoid it....it sounds like from your additional information, that she needs the Lord in her life more than ever...so you need to start praying for her,...and find a group of people who you could turn to that have compassion, and would try to help you by going over there and talking to her...if she is taking drugs, that are illegal...she will get caught..this is a terrible burden for you, because I know you love her...I am so sorry, and I will be praying for her and you also..
2007-01-03 20:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought about taking in your little sister. You could actually make your mom pay child support depending on the laws in your state. You sure need to do something in your sisters best interest and get her the heck away from your mom. That's the first thing that should be delt with. Your mom is a big girl but your sister is unable to defend what happens and obviously your mom needs serious help and should not be taking care of an innocent child!!!
2007-01-04 07:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by ~cHeRyL~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 18 - time to fledge and leave the nest behind. If you are really concerned about your younger sister's welfare you need to contact the appropriate child welfare authorities. In the event you do this it will be up to those authorities to determine whether or not the younger sister remains in the home. You can't do any more than that. End. Finito. That's it my girl. Good luck.
2007-01-04 04:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mum needs support . Go with her to the meetings,It is time for you to fly the nest and make your own life. Cant you take your sister with you say during holidays?Best of luck.
2007-01-04 06:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋