my husband can't understand my feeling,what i do.i am graduate but he is matric.?

Answer 1

well education 50% plays part in understanding of other person. if you are saying that your husband can't understand you because he is less educated than you.Then you should,as more educated person, try to sort out why he does not understand you and sought ways that may enhance your compatibility.
secondly, all men when husband don't understand their wife's feeling__it can cost them alot :)

Answer 2

well education dont have any role in understanding the feelings
i mean he is educated
he hav done his basic education
well y u think that he is matric and u r graduate creates a problem
may b that might be the problem coz u might b thinking that u r graduate
and your hubby is a metric
so that can be the problem
ego
coz its clear by the way u asking the question
coz beiong a graduate or masters is not necessary to understand ones emotion.
to understand emotions one need is heart and mind and education is not nmecessary
many people in villages and cities are not been even to school that doesnt means that they dont understand emotion


the problem might be the communication gap.
share your problems freely with each other
if you have any problem they shasre iot with yopur husband
tell him what u feel
what u have on your mind and in your heart
and communicate a lot
dont just talk
by communicate i mean communicate not just talk.....
if u dont like anythiong of your hubby then let him know u tell him dont just keep in your heart
and tell him to do so too as whetever he doesnt like in u he tell u tell him to do that
and sometimes neglecting each others wishes and needs also creates such troubles
so do talk and communicate with each other
and do talk by your heart
and never bring your education and ego in between coz that may creat other troubles.....

good luck

Answer 3

Wow, I'm glad that u r so serious about achieveing Understanding in your relationship. That's wonderful.

Ability to understand is not earned in any college that u have attened and he has't.

It comes through exposure of life.

u'r intelligent, so u can play more significant role to achieve understanding between the two of you. Be patient and put forward your views logically and objectively.

Since u r serious and committed, I'm 101 % sure that u will achieve it sooner or later.

Answer 4

I don’t think you should be whining about hubby being less educated than you…you married him didn’t you? Besides there are a lot of highly educated husbands out there who do not understand their wives feelings. Why don’t you change your feelings to suit your husband’s level of understanding?

Answer 5

FEELINGS OF WHAT ?

EMOTIONAL FEELINGS MAY BE
YOU ARE REFERING TO.

HE MAY NOT BE AS MATURED AS YOU ARE.
BUT YOU HAVE TO MAKE HIM UNDERSTAND
SLOWLY ABOUT THE REALITIES OF LIFE
IN A POLITE WAY AND NOT THROUGH
AGGRESSIONS, WHICH OFTEN LEADS TO
LOT OF MISERIES FOR BOTH THE COUPLE.

EGO IS THE LAST THING TO BE CONSIDERED
BY YOU.

PLEASE SHED YOUR EGOES AND DO NOT
TRY TO FIND FAULTS WITH HIM, UNLESS HE
ASKS FOR UGLY FAVOURS LIKE FORCING
YOU A DRINK, GO OUT WITH SOME ONE ELSE FOR
DINNER, DANCE IN A PARTY, DRESS IN A
REVEALING MANNER, MAKE YOU AWAKE TILL
LATE AT NIGHT TO ENTERTAIN HIS FRIENDS
AND GIVE THEM FOOD ETC.

HE MAY BE TOO DEMANDING FOR SEX,
BUT IT IS USUAL, BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE.

YOU HAVE TO ENSURE THAT HIS EMOTIONS ARE
ALSO NOT HURT.

Answer 6

A man doesn't have to be intelligent to not understand his wife if that's what you are getting at.

Answer 7

why did you marry him in the first place you have told us exactly what he wants from you