So think of people who have children out of wedlock... not that its going to send you to hell or anything, it happens. But think of the child that grows up in that situation. What happens with them? Does the mother usually allow the father to have a relationship with the child? What if the parents never marry and still keep in contact, what is the relation like between the three people? How do you think the child will grow up and have relationships later in life, will they follow in their parents' footsteps?
I've always wondered this. If you grew up like this, please give a little bit of your childhood relationships with your parents, thank you.
2007-01-03 19:08:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yeah, sorry about all the questions. I'm feeling a bit psychiatristic at the moment...
2007-01-03 19:13:22 · update #1
I am a member of one of the "helping professions" and I have noticed that, in the majority of cases, the children emulate the parent's behavior. The parent is their major role model. There ARE exceptions if the child is fortunate enough to have someone who loves them and models different behavior. I have known grandmothers as young as 30 and there was no wisdom available to be passed down. As a side note: when the mother has boyfriends, the incidence of abuse of the child increases.
2007-01-03 19:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have several questions here~
As a parent, it was much easier to have a "Family unit" and be married.
Yet, many children are blessed with one loving parent. So the status of the marriage is not relevant at that point.
The child is the focus point. The law mandates the rest.
2007-01-04 03:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think , these type of mis happening really effect the growth of children..........they are always found reclusive.........they hate everything.........................but time changes everything ....................
These children would hate to be like their parents ..........they will settle in for stable relationship and will carefully look after their children very well........
Becoz they know very well, how restrained relationship can blur the future of child..........................
2007-01-04 03:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually the kids are put up for adoption, when either side wants to keep thekid. and my sister has a friend where his parents divorced when he was a teen, and neither of them wanted to keep him, so he was left alone, he worked and went to school at the same. he was working to keep himself alive
2007-01-04 03:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋