Sometimes he talks to me about other girls so I don't think he's interested, but he has little nicknames for me, does that mean he likes me or sees me like a little sister? I don't know what to think. I dated someone in the workplace at a previous job, but I was advised it was a bad idea. What should I do? I most defenitly do not have the guts to ever say anything.
2007-01-03 19:01:55 · 13 answers · asked by Rock, Paper, Scissors 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
observe. if he likes you enough, he'll ask you out. period. :D
2007-01-03 19:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by LoLs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound similar to me in that you don't want to do the wrong thing. Most people would just say relax, go for it, etc, but I think it's better to be cautious than make a mess of things.
Work is a place for just that - work. Focus on your productivity not on the boy. You should probably think about why you are having these feelings. A person can be attractive because they are a nice person or may be good looking, and just because you find the person 'attractive' doesn't mean you want to be with them. If you do want to be with them, then maybe you should think about why. What has bought on this attraction, if something like this has never happened before?
Also, you should always remember the main reason you are at work is to be PRODUCTIVE. So try to stay focused on your job without giving the appearance of seeming stuck up.
2007-01-03 19:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by Bombshell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're describing an emotional affair about to change into actual so congrats to you for understanding it and dealing with it. Take a huge step lower back far out of your co-worker. you're emotionally bonding by sharing emotions and thoughts about your relationships, outdoors activities, reviews, etc. decrease your interaction to mandatory artwork communicate. for sure it's going to be troublesome because this is enjoyable and now this is over. The contact you shared merely higher the exhilaration component. inspite of the indisputable fact that it extremely potential not something till you supply it which potential. keep your communicate and call in the course of the day for your boyfriend. btw if the co-worker is married, end all contact era. Emotional affairs are addictions and favor to end thoroughly earlier threat free activities are damage.
2016-12-01 19:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are in the I want to date someone I work with rut. He probably feels comfortable around you but has no intention of dating. It is never a good idea to date who you work with. Unless its a mediocre job that you can find anywhere.
2007-01-04 01:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your life to the fullest, answer him truthfully and listen to your heart. I know workplace romance has a lot of pitfalls but then again some people are destined to connect and this could be the one!
2007-01-03 19:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by patty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The advice you got was good. Its a place where you work and a relationship with someone there could end up making your job miserable in time.
2007-01-03 19:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring up dating in the conversation and casually mention you have not been on any good dates lately. If he likes you at all he will use the situation to ask you out : ) good luck
2007-01-03 19:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by felixtricks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be yourself and he probably likes you but doesn't want you to know when a guy talks about another girl to you like that then he's just making you jealous i wouldn't ask him out yet ........maybe you can ask him if he wants to get some thin to eat after work it will be a date but he won't know ! lol
2007-01-03 19:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by Monica B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romance in the work place doesn't work.
If you like your job, you will just be friends.
Unless one of you changes jobs. Then ask him
to lunch. Lunch is safe.
2007-01-03 19:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved with someone you work with. Bad idea. Very bad idea.
2007-01-03 19:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by hairdvs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he feels. Why pretend, if you want to know just ask and go from there. You wont die and neither will he.
2007-01-03 19:11:08 · answer #11 · answered by boby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋