I have a friend and she is in love with her boyfriend but her boyfriend fooled around. She moved out and then he ask her to come back home so she did. Today I picked her up to do errands and dropped her off @ 6:30pm he was mad he was did not believe she was telling the truth. So I told her he can't trust himself because he fooled around and he think you are going to do the same to him. Do you think I gave her the right advice?
2007-01-03 18:40:47 · 15 answers · asked by rastaj4life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I think u did give the right advice. You will probably find he has been fooling around again and is attacking her so that he won't feel the need to defend himself. Guys seem to go on the attack when they have a guilty conscience about something and they lash out b4 they can be lashed at !
2007-01-03 18:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by Tequila Sheila SA 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No 1 - Guys never feel quilty after fooling around.
No 2 - I think you have given a good advice to your friend
Encourage the girl to dump him and move on.
2007-01-03 19:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They fool around because they can..i do not think all of them do feel guilty...
now there is a non-trust issue with both of them.........
the advice was probably right on the money!!.
2007-01-03 18:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always heard that if your significant other can't trust you and you have given him no reason not to then that means they are cheating. I think you gave her good advice. Just to let you know though, people in her situation often stay with them and it happens over and over and nothing you can say will make her leave or help get it through her head that he is a loser.
2007-01-03 18:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by ginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think guys feel bad about getting caught THEN, later, feel bad about fooling around.
I think you gave your friend the right advice. I guess he's a firm believer in karma!
2007-01-03 18:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys fool around because humans in nature are not monogamous. Monogamy only a recent development in human history.
2007-01-03 18:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they have TWO HEADS, one with brain (above) and the other without (bellow), and it all depends which one, at a particular time, rules the other!
You gave your frind the right advice.
2007-01-03 22:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you did thats all guilt guilt comes from guilty consence plus you can never trust a male i think your friend young dum and needs to believe in herself tell her to move on and go find someone whos worth being with it takes time but time is all we have
2007-01-03 18:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys fool around because they are nit wits.
2007-01-03 18:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silly girl.
He's not feeling guilty.
He's only feeling dumb and afraid to feel dumber.
So what's your question, "right advice" or "feeling guily"?
In any case, IMHO off target.
2007-01-03 18:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by Wonka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋