2007-01-03 18:40:21 · 14 answers · asked by katie l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i meant 2 or 3
2007-01-03 18:40:31 · update #1
also, say we have been going out for 2 and a half years already
2007-01-03 18:42:40 · update #2
Only if both of you are ANGELS!
2007-01-03 18:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends if you guys want it to work.
I have been in two different relationships that I only got to see the guy maybe a month at the most during the whole year.
If you plan on marrying the guy or keeping a relationship it may work but if not, maybe the best thing to do is to go separate ways until there is more time for you two to spend together.
I was engaged to the man that I spent a year and a half with and we only saw each other 2 months at most. Our engagement was just called off because the stress of a long distance relationship set a lot of problems for the both of us.
If you truly love him and want to be with him, then try it, it may work, but if not, take that year for yourself getting to know what you really want out of life.
2007-01-03 18:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by souplane21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you'd have a tough row to hoe there. I'm not sure how intimacy can grow when you would be seeing so little of one another. True intimacy comes from interacting on an almost day-to-day basis, doing the "mundane" stuff together in our daily lives, that helps the trust and deep connections take seed and grow. I'm not sure how seeing somebody twice a month would do that.
So, IMO, no, I don't think this thing would last. But that's me. It wouldn't work for me personally.
2007-01-03 18:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 02:18:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can last as long as the both of you put the same amount of effort on keeping the relationship going, if you do then it is sure to work out
2007-01-03 18:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not about seeing other. My boyfriend and i havent even been together - he is working abroad when we became "us". how we've been longing to see each other, hug and kiss even if we were only given a minute! our long distance relationship is going because of good communication.. trust.. and honesty.. if u hav that u shouldnt worry much..
2007-01-03 18:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by angelouu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the same thing.
We survived for about 3 years.
2007-01-03 18:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by John C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you only met for 4 or 5 times! are you happy? find someone you can meet at least when you need.
2007-01-03 18:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by Louy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's how often you see each other, but how much quality time there is when you are together.
2007-01-03 18:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Beth S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, It could, but probably not very likely.
2007-01-03 18:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by o0p2k0o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋