is jealousy apart of love?

Answer 1

As far as I know jealousy is a part of every serious relationship whether its barely there or there too often. I know theres times i get jealous of things in my relationship, its normal to feel jealousy every once in a while as long as it isnt overexaggerated and used too often.

Answer 2

If you truly love someone you should not use jealousy as a tool for getting attention, in other words if you really care about someone you should not try to make them jealous or give them reason to be jealous. On the other side of the coin if you communicate your feelings and let the person you love know they are making you jealous, the other person if they love you should be able to reassure you and care for your feeling.
When jealousy gets out of hand it is usually a break down in communication and or trust.
Jealousy can be very ugly, and is the prime destroyer of love, so if you want to destroy a relationship be sure to include plenty of jealousy.
To answer your question, no, while it natural to feel jealous if you love someone and they you, jealousy should be kept away from love.

Answer 3

Its a part of loving someone in a sense - even though it shouldn't be. If you and your partner truly love one another then trust is a part of that love and there is no need for jealousy. True love is unconditional - so no other factors should influence it. Jealousy is more a part of possession and wanting to possess someone. It is also a huge part of insecurity !!! If you love yourself you will never feel the need to be jealous over anyone else.

Answer 4

yes, but trust is also a part of love Jealousy is the attempt to keep the person that you love from being with someone else. Jealousy can also be a part of insecurity though.

Answer 5

Yes. There is no way to really love someone and not feel jealous at some time. Controlling jealousy (anger) is the part that proves you really love the person.

Answer 6

Yes, to an extent. If you think about the emotion we call, I guess, "Feeling" then you can look at it as a spectrum from hate to love. I find in relationships that if you hit one extreme, you'll find the other extreme as well. In other words, if your love is strong, you'll want to hold on to the object of your love and will come in time to hate (or be jealous of those who appear to want what you have). But we also have trust as a counterbalance to jealousy. Checks and balances, that's all it is at the surface, and yeah love does go deeper but I'm not touching that right now.

Answer 7

It's a part of human-nature. Jealousy comes with love I suppose too. Most people want their loved one to give them their full, undivided attention, and when another person has some of that attention jealousy is almost certain. Take it with a grain of salt and remember that you are the one who goes home with the person. (hopefully)

Answer 8

Love is never jealous...even though every single one of us experiences jealousy at one time or another. It's not a quality of love itself, but it's something that comes with the person in the relationship.

Answer 9

I think a little jealousy is normal, but it comes from insecurity, not love.

Answer 10

There are two major types of Love:
1. Real Love.
Real love means you love A and you like and never jealous from those who love A. For example GOD. Obviously you will like those people who love God and never jealous from them.

2. Personal Love.
Personal love means you love B and you jealous and hate them who love B. For example your wife. Obviously you will hate those who love your wife and will feel jealousy from them.

Regards.