all my really close friends have a boyfriend/girlfriend and they are alwasy saying how awsome it is to have someone. and im not really the kinda girl who always needs a boyfriend but now i want someone, not just for the title, but to have someone.
2007-01-03 18:01:27 · 20 answers · asked by Little Miss Spectacular 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How to Make Real Friends :
- We All Need Friends
- Satisfying Our Hunger for Friendship
- Good Friends--Bad Friends
http://watchtower.org/e/20041208/article_01.htm
How Can I Avoid Getting Involved With the Wrong People?
- What Kind of Friends Are Good?
- Friendships Among Fellow Christians
- Friendship With the Opposite Sex
http://watchtower.org/e/20050822/article_01.htm
2007-01-03 18:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THis happened to me but im a guy.I was in a band and all my musician friends where makeing out with their girlfriends at the club we played at right out in public.I kinda felt out of place watching them but while i sat at the bar 2 girls where watching me.One whispered to me,"how does that make you feel that they have someone.I told the girls that they have no clue what hides behind my closed doors.They ended up finding out.
Actually what I want you to really know is that I know how it can to be lonely like you feel right now.Eventually I felt lonely again.I ended find the answer by praying to God for the right person to come to me.I even went as far as explaining that I didn't want her to be too good looking or too ugly and I didn't want her to be perfect because im not.He answered my prayers.
Just truly believe and ask God to give you your soul mate and when the timeings right that person will come knocking at your door step.Just don't forget to thank God later even if you finally relized what happened 2 weeks after.You'll Know when the time comes.
2007-01-03 18:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by Matty G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a bf for the sake of having one, then its not good. Dont let other people influence you so easily, it seems that they might be making you jealous on purpose, so ignore them. Dont give them the pleasure of seeing you hurt when it comes to this. If it does get out of control, then let them know that you dont appreciate how they are rubbing it in your face. You dont need someone to make you feel better. A boyfriend doesnt always mean happiness.
Good Luck!
2007-01-03 18:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by Blood&Wine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it style of feels to me that your total life is tied up into your boyfriend. Do you have different friends? Do you have a life outdoors of your boyfriend? If that love which you declare to have for him is real and reciprocal (he loves you back), then neither time nor distance will exchange that. actuality examine: meanwhile, you will desire to renowned that boyfriend will go away and could meet and have interaction with different women. it is purely organic... you may now the two get mad and sulk or you may agreed with boyfriend that it incredibly is okay for the two certainly one of you 2 to ensure different individuals. this style you may the two be honest with one yet another and later in life you isn't indignant at "what would have been". Did you get it or did you omit it?
2016-10-29 23:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, how old are u? 2ndly, why would u want to be jealous if u know u will be experiencing bad times with someone in ur life, too soon? I mean, there are up and downs being with someone. It takes time to look for one. Do not rush into it, just bcoz everyone has got a bf. It might just kill u, u know what I mean. Take it slow..gal!
2007-01-03 18:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaww..c'mon honey! don't be influenced by them!all your close friends have bf/gf doesn't mean you MUST have one as well!yes..it may be really sweet and nice having someone there to hold on to and just be there for you but hey..it CAN be really nice being single too! at least you're free of commitments, you can do whatever you like without any constraints..you have more time to yourself to do other things that you want!don't be in a hurry to find a bf..when the right one comes..you'll know..enjoy single life right now! =)
2007-01-03 18:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want a boyfriend, then get yourself one. Don't get one just because your friends have one and you feel you have to have one because it's the flavor of the month. If you get into a relationship, do it for the right reasons, not to just dump when you aren't feeling it or your friends don't have em anymore.
2007-01-03 18:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by coolness4sho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait around just a little bit - before long, they will be having relationship issues that you'll be glad you don't have, and when they get in fights and break up with their boyfrends - which they will, given time - then you'll be soooo glad that you're single and without the stress!
2007-01-03 18:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by Jen Armero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the "perfect" guy to come to you! Enjoy being Single because you are going to probably spend the rest of your life with someone. Don't waste your time with foolish relationships, they lead nowhere and only hurt you.
2007-01-03 18:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by viciousmishious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Be happy while you are single. The good thing is that you can go out and talk to whomever, go home with whomever, and not answer to anyone. Your friends may be jealous and a little too into themselves. get some new single friends to hang out with..
2007-01-03 18:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋