If the girl said the she need time?
I’ve been dating girl since two weeks, we started as a friend since we meet as this (it’s complicated story), and that was my aim.
She recently broke up with a guy who has 2 months relationship with her before meeting me, and they are just friends now as what she said!
In these two weeks we went out 6 times, she liked me and I liked her! we started kissing and have lovely time in all dates, but I haven’t slept with her.
Honestly I didn’t want until be sure that she really likes me and want relation ship with me.
Today we dated for dinner, and before we go for date we planned just for dinner since she will go with her family. When we was out she told me that the guy calling her all time but he is out of town now and he will come back next week, and she don’t want to continue the relation but she will go to meet him in the airport as a friend! She is confused!
When we went to my home, after a while of conversation,
2007-01-03 17:55:08 · 12 answers · asked by Marchelo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after a while of conversation, we started kissing for along time, when we went to the bed while we started to get long. She asked me to stop and she has to go with her family.
I knew that she is confused. I told her I understand. And I gave her a ride.
While we in the way to her home, she told me she is confused but she (almost) will never back to hem!
I told her I relay understand, and whatever she decides I will understand and we will be just friend “but I like as you like me”.
Tomorrow we planning to go with her family for a party, then she will leave for vacation with her family next week.
What do you think guys about this? And what I should do?
2007-01-03 17:55:49 · update #1
Sometimes it is not easy for a person to jump into another relationship after ending one. Respect her and give her space and time to decided what she wants to do. People can be friends with their x-boyfriends and girlfriends. If you really care about this person and she cares for you then overtime things may change and you will grow closer. These things take time.
2007-01-03 18:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by SparklyThingz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants.
She might still not be over the other guy.
You should just enjoy it while it lasts with her. And not wait around forever for her to make up her mind.
2007-01-04 04:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your going after a bag lady. If the girl needs time then give her time to heal.
2007-01-04 01:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by Duckie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could go both ways. She could be still in love with this guy and then this guy might not be in love with her. My suggestion would be to move on, cause life is too short.
2007-01-04 02:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by S S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far, I would say you are doing things in a "proper" manner. You told her how you feel and now it's up to her. Just wait and see what develops.
2007-01-04 02:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by Bikerbutt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well there goes the neighborhood dude.. seems she don't like you that much. kisses are 200 per dollar today rarely means a lot but you can use it to know how she feels for you
2007-01-04 02:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by frozenthunder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a bit confused. give her some time and let her decide. She will surely come back to you.
2007-01-04 02:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're moving to fast for her. give her some time to think and get her inner thoughts out.
2007-01-04 02:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow and be careful, she could be rebounding and go right back to him.
2007-01-04 01:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the book, "She's just not that into to you"
2007-01-04 01:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by RiverGirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋