I've been dating this girl for a few days now, but she won't tell me she loves me. I feel that I love her more than she loves me. She will kiss me, and tell me that I'm the sexiest man she has ever dated, but she won't tell me she loves me. I have probably told her 50 times, but she just changes the subject, or doesn't respond. I cry everyday because of that. I feel she might just be using me. What should I do? How do I get her to love me? Should I break up with her?
2007-01-03 17:53:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A few days? Gawd,,give the girl a break.Why cry,,she is with YOU.Even your name is depressing.You are your own worst enemy.
2007-01-03 17:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only been a few days? Yeah u need to give it time, or figure out what love really is and all that stuff. While it seems really soon, if u dont wanna wait to see if she feels the same then go date someone else
2007-01-04 01:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by Mikey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMFAO a few days isn't long enough to fall in love with someone you definitely are not in love with her she won't say she loves you because she wouldn't mean it and by the way saying "i love you" to early is one of the worst thing you can do and will quickly ruin a relationship and stop being such a big baby love takes time and is very complicated she should break up with you
2007-01-04 01:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by Brad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a very strong word in a relationship. Once it gets tossed around it can really hurt people if things dont work out. She is still discovering her feelings for you, she just chooses to express them in different ways. Don't get to down on yourself because she won't say it, it will come when she feels the time is right.
Another suggestion would be to not say it as much to her but try expressing your "love" in other ways to make her feel more comfortable.
2007-01-04 01:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! breaking up only will cause you more pain then you already feel. What you should do is let her get to know you better take it slow and don't rush things if you do you may get hurt in thee end.
Look When you have a rose take care of it don't over water it with "Love and affection" if you do they start to die and it's hard to get them back. So if your rose has not yet shown you her rosebud then this rose may not be yours. Besides their is a whole wold of Roses to pick from so take your time see if she blooms if not then it's time to toss her out. Some roses have thorn-es you just don't need because they will always end up hurting you.
P.S. Don't tell her you love her and see what happens she just may start to bloom. And if not she just wasn't good enough for you to Begin with. But if you feel she maybe using you, she just may be. Some thoughts don't always lie...
Hope this helped you.
2007-01-04 02:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something known as body language it means over and above what she says / states , her facial changes, her gestures, etc etc . You study all this and still you feel that she does not love you or you are still in confused state, just ask her until you get the answer. Do not hesitate because you are afraid that she might negate you because its better to get confirmed than to suffer in a dilema. I still think that she loves you and had not yet made up her mind . Hence gather courage and ask her. All the best.
2007-01-04 02:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on Earth would you tell a girl that you love her just a few days into the relationship? You don't know her enough to actually LOVE her.
This is why she isn't saying it back - you're moving too fast. She can't possibly know you well enough after a few days to love you back.
You better slow down or you'll lose her.
2007-01-04 01:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay hold on and get a grip! You've only been dating a few days! I am 100% sure she doesn't love you yet, she likes you but I doubt she loves you. Love takes time. Dating someone for a few days you can't develop love that quick!
2007-01-04 01:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woaahhhh slow down! a few days! give her space. shes not where u are yet. dont worry she might get there but love takes time. and ur not giving her that. dont cry because she dosnt say it she dosnt say it because she dosnt feel it. and would u rather her jus say it to make u happy or for her to actually feel it. she will more then likely break up with u if u keep doing this to her.
2007-01-04 01:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by sara ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well after only a few days she isn't saying she loves you because she probably doesn't. You can't "get" her to love you, you can't MAKE someone love you, you can't MAKE someone feel something for you that they don't. You can also not break up something that isn't there. You've only been dating her for a few days...there isn't a relationship there.
2007-01-04 01:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOAH. a few days? not everyone can say something as deep and commitment involved as "i love you" in just a few days! Just chill and enjoy the fun of dating her. she will say it when she feels it. it wont work at all to pressure her or guilt her to say it. geex dude, be careful, or you intensity on the point of love will cause the opposite reaction and scare her away.
you cant make someone love you, just relax and it will happen in time if its ment to.
2007-01-04 02:04:52 · answer #11 · answered by bamboozled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋