Theres this girl and she calls me everyday.. shes pretty hot but really boring on the phone... what do i do?

Question

should i hook up with her and keep listening to those long as conversations or tell her i dont really like her personality cuz shes dull and stay friends and tell her not to call me.. or any other suggestions

not all uu get it ... ii do chll wiiit hher llikke once a week oor soo and shs shhyy annd a lil borng til we mack and .. so on

Answer 1

I would give her a chance, if I were you. Perhaps she is not for you (and, by the way, being hot shouldn't have anything to do with any of this), but perhaps you aren't hearing the real her?

Some guys thought that I was dull, and some guys thought think that I am excellent to talk to. Those other guys- Most of them I wasn't super comfortable around, so it was hard to let my true self out, even if I wanted to. Most of them didn't really listen, so when I had started to get comfortable talking to them, it got really hard for me to be myself when I felt like they weren't listening. For some people it takes time and patience to be able to have a great conversation with.

She probably talks so much to you because she trusts you. And you may be too shallow to find what she has to say interesting. Maybe she's not talking at your lower level. Whatever it may be, there is a chance that the truly dull one is you, and not her. For all I know, she may be a sweet girl that has some very nice, interesting things to say.

Answer 2

Maybe she finds the telephone conversations just as boring as you do but is trying to keep you on the phone because she wants to 'be' with you any way she can. Have you tried talking to her about things that interest you ? They might just interest her too. If you are the really shy and silent type then she could be finding this just as difficult as you are. Take her on a date where there are other people around you and if she is the same in person then at least you have other people to talk to.

Answer 3

I would say don't even entertain the idea of trying to hook-up with a girl you can't stand listening to. If you want a girlfriend make sure it's someone you would want to hang out with first, because having a beautiful sculpture is wonderful, but after a while looking at it will get boring, and what do you do now? Don't be an a s s about it, but try to tell her you don't really find her interesting.

Answer 4

Well, she just has a lot to say that's all. She seems like she's pretty confident to talk to you and probally wants your opinion about a few things. Maybe she looks up to you. Why not start the conversation yourself that way she can talk about what you both can relate to.

Answer 5

DUDE! You go out with her on a date and see how she is in person. Most people aren't phone talkers, I mean hell.....a lot guys don't like talking on the phone. If she is not what you expected in person, then let her know.

Answer 6

Well instead of talking on the phone with her so much how about just hanging out with her, actually talking to her face to face so you can get a real look at how she is!

Answer 7

Mabye shes shy and you should make more conversation
like ask her questions that can carry onto other topics. Or just
call her to ask her out then speak with her in person.

Answer 8

If she is boring over the phone...does that means she is boring in person? If she's different in person, hmm...maybe give her a chance...if not... you might wanna move on

Answer 9

initiate conversation talk about things you know shes interested in to keep her entertain - maybe she just has poor phone edict?

Answer 10

see her in person better and tell her your really not a telephone person it's probably you that's boring most men are shy