I've just realized after months of flirting and being close with a guy i liked that im falling in love. He treats me like he really cares for me but we never talk about how we feel about each other. So i can never be sure, even though his actions say he does i just dont know. I dont want to fool myself into thinking he does care for me when its just a bit of fun for him but the way his with me is quite intimate. Due to circumstances we cant really be together right now, but i dont want to get hurt letting it go on. I dont want to confront him and make things uncomfortable between us, what can i do to make him tell me how he feels without being blunt? He knows i have feelings for him
2007-01-03 17:05:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why can't u be together?
u should just come right out and say it " i don't want things 2 be weird between us but i really have 2 know how u feel about me, cuz if u don't feel the same way i do then i have 2 try 2 get over u"
if he doesn't like u back then say " i'm sorry, can we go back 2 the way things used 2 be, and pretend this never happened?" if he really cares adout you then everything will be ok.
Good Luck
2007-01-03 17:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by goin_crazi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just bring up who he likes casually in a conversation, or just start by liking kissing him on the cheek and then if he doesn't freak and possibly kisses your sometime on the cheek then move to the lips and eventually you'll have some tongue, but i mean that can start a conversation about it. or just casually bring it up and just be blunt, sometimes guys like it when girls are out front and blunt, they are too slow to get it in other ways sometimes.
2007-01-04 01:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Shelby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its just good to be upfront with someone so maybe you should just ask him how he feels i think its better to know than keep yourself wondering if you think that you both feel the same way about each other ask .
2007-01-04 01:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when you talk to him and stuf when you end a conversation start saying stuff like "bye and love you like a brother" then as time passes start saying i love you. and i he loves you back he'll start saying the same thing
2007-01-04 01:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by purple monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows sad to say he would have made the move if he liked you too.
2007-01-04 01:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes u i think he'll definitely take the first move.
2007-01-04 01:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by guess l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
express ur feeling by words or by gifting
2007-01-04 01:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by Sonu G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋