If I know this guy that i went out on a few dates with and then stop talkin to him for a while...and know recently starded talkin to him again but he was very sincere and told me that he was talkin to like 4 more girls now but nothing serious...so should i start talkin to him in a dating way again or not?
2007-01-03 17:03:10 · 15 answers · asked by honeybun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not serious and you're not serious either. Why don't you find another more serious about relationship and stick with that one? Don't waste your time for nothing.
2007-01-03 17:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by Dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
First of all, according 2 my point of view, if i was in ur place i would not trust him coz if 1 time he has done this what do u know what he wil do in the future 2 u. he can sfill lie but a person can change anytime u must giv him some time n if a person luv u sincerely he can give up all the bad habits.
2007-01-04 01:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by Meza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering how young the two of you are why not try to talk to a couple yourself. Ladies are more likely to want one guy forever. Not forever like that, just meaning to grow with. Guys on the other hand like to have her here and her over there and so on. But at least your options are open for having friends. If Intimacy Is Involved I would definitely talk to him about being the only one. But while your young why not keep your options open Instead of trying to be set with one guy when another over there could be the one!!....good luck!!
2007-01-04 01:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by passion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh...that's tricky. If it's a non commital sort of thing and you're ok with the fact that he's talking to other girls, go ahead and start talking to him again. Personally, I wouldn't want to be one in the line of many. He's sort of spreading himself pretty thin which means how much time could he seriously have for you? If you're looking for a relationship with this guy, he doesn't sound like the committing type.
2007-01-04 01:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the way you worded your question it sounds like you're expecting this guy to stop seeing multiple women. Also you want a long-term committed relationship. I would date him if I were a chick (vice-versa), but also look elsewhere for something more solid.
2007-01-04 01:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by lostinmontana406 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The idea of dating is getting to know people, you take it from there. You aren't exclusive, and both have the right to date other people until that is defined.
2007-01-04 01:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only be serious with a man who shows clear interest in you. Men go get what they want, don't make any moves until he's sure.
2007-01-04 01:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he is honest with you and it is only a dating thing, no commitment promises then I say go for it, have fun.
2007-01-04 01:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by momof3boys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself why you started to talk to him again if he has upted his lifestyle are you interested in what you could get out of him??? be honest.
On another note it was very honorable for him to let you know you're not the only one at least you know he's not a jerk.
2007-01-04 01:13:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a date, not a promise of marraige. There's no commitment. Why not?
2007-01-04 01:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋