I am so desperate, I would give anything to have a guy in my life who loves me. What should I do?
Would any guys want me?
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2007-01-03 16:58:55 · 28 answers · asked by Rachel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're hot!
2007-01-03 17:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
common girl, you are so beautiful and i sense some kind of inferiority complex there. If you are desperate, it will show in your body language (some how) and i can assure you that you will only attract the kind of guys that will have use you for their own sexual pleasure.not trying to be old fashioned but believe me you don't need one to feel complete. Just relax and focus on other good things of life and the right guy who really loves you will come along at a time you least expect. but if you continue your desperate search, you'll only get a f*** mate
All the best
2007-01-04 01:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by 22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have no life and be extremely immature to actually believe that you NEED a boyfriend. By being so desperate you set yourself up for a lot of bad relationships and you will only have yourself to blame in the long run. I suggest you get some self respect and give up the NEED for a boyfriend and start working on the NEED for a life.
2007-01-04 01:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure your physicaly attractive but needyness is always off putting, perhaps you should sit with your aloneness and let it teach you until you realize that your complete in and of yourself, you get to that level of confidence and liking yourself and you may end up with the problem of too many guys wanting you. Find love for yourself first. No you don't need a boyfriend but grow to the point where you beniefit from allowing a boyfriend to be a guest in your world.
2007-01-04 01:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by scottc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl, you don't NEED a b/f.... you WANT a b/f. Your desperateness will score you nothing but a guy who will use you for sex though. They're not idiots. THey can fool you and you'll think it's love....and then you'll hate him. This just made me sound cynical. But no, I'm serious. Learn to be happy alone and someone will come along. Doesnt' matter WHEN it happens, it will when it should.
2007-01-04 01:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First no one NEEDS a boyfriend. and second a guy can smell desperation a mile away. Relax..not easy to do I know..but try. Find something to keep you busy and the next thing you know someone will come into your life.
2007-01-04 01:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by Jan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really feel sorry for the man that you end up dating. You are a pretty girl, but you are going to treat him bad, and make HIM cater to you. You are not going to want to do any of the legwork in the relationship, but want all the good things like flowers, diamonds, chocolates and sex...
2007-01-04 01:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by Pandora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need a guy, that's when you have to step back and get to the point where you don't..
then go out and look and you'll have more confidence and it'll end up working out better.
2007-01-04 01:00:24 · answer #8 · answered by Sgt. Pepper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will find your prince charming one day. so just live in the moment and be thankful for what you already have.
and girl, you don't need a boyfriend
be an independent women until you find the right guy
2007-01-04 01:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by goin_crazi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Why do you need a boyfriend?
No one NEEDS anyone else in their life. It's nice to have, but it is not a need. A boyfriend should be a companion, a friend, someone to do things with, talk with, but he is not your whole life, nor should he be expected to be.
2007-01-04 01:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill. Get over being desperate. Don't get a boyfriend if you are desperate, because you will be taken advantage of.
Just my advice.
2007-01-04 01:01:04 · answer #11 · answered by Weston 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋