My bf who iv ended evrytn with a few days ago gave me an ultimatum.either i marry him in 6mnts 2 a yr or we go our seperate ways. His excuse is hs mum doesnt stay wel, n hes getn old!im 25, hes 32, i wana establish myself b4 i marry iv told hm 2wait 3yrz he aint havin it, does he truly luv me 2 nt want me?n wait?
2007-01-03 16:53:22 · 9 answers · asked by SARAH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Easy, Do you want to marry him eventually? If so, establishing yourself isn't going to help your marriage at all. Or how 'bout getting married in a year and a half or two years, nice and far off, plenty of time to plan a wedding or back out as the case may be.
He probably wants babies.
2007-01-03 16:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by mommy333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's giving you an ultimatum and you're not ready for ANY reason, don't marry him! If you do, you'll only regret it if you haven't done the things you'd like to do before you're married. He has to realize there's an age difference there and if he's that set on getting married because he's 32, he should find someone who is closer to his age and has the biologicial clock tick tick ticking. Don't do anything until you're ready even if you risk losing him. In the long run, you'll resent him and neither of you will have a happy marriage.
2007-01-03 17:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you're 25. A grown women does NOT type like that. And by being 25, you are NOT old.
Just get over him and move on. NO man is worth an ulitmatum..
2007-01-03 16:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by Pandora 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE NOT READY TO MARRY HIM THEN DONT LET
HIM RUSH YOU TO ANYTHING THAT WOULD BE A BIG MISTAKE, AND IF HE REALLY LOVE YOU THEN HE WOULD
UNDERSTAND WHY YOU FEEL AS YOU DO. SOUND LIKE
HE BE VERY SELFISH,AND MAYBE YOU NEED TO MOVE ON
TRUST ME IF YOU MARRY HIM FOR THE WRONG REASON
YOU WILL REGRET IT.
2007-01-03 17:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you want to wait if you love him. If you want him, grab him. If not, let him go. And use your free time to take a typing class.
2007-01-03 16:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are not ready and that he aint realy lovin you if he is gonna be all about himself and that you need time. nest time try and spell out your words.
2007-01-03 16:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him even though my parents have 20 years differnce
2007-01-03 16:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by Ashlee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you already know the answer... he's gotta go.
2007-01-03 16:57:11 · answer #8 · answered by Marmontos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let him rush you. my ex rushed me and guess what??? it didnt last.
2007-01-03 16:56:55 · answer #9 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋