I have been friends with two other girls and a boy since about 5th grade. We are juniors in HS now. Noone is sexually active. Anyway, the four of us were alone in my mom's from room exchanging christmas presents. The guy got me this really cute pink, long fuzzy sweater. I held it up over my top and asked how it looked. He said "great - try it on." So, for some unknown reason, with the three of them there infromt of me, I took off my shirt and bra and tried on the new fuzzy sweater. It felt great! I also thougt is was kind of exciting to stand there in front of them being bare (for just an instant) from my waste up. The guy takes us out to the river on most summer days, We use his car to change clothes. He has seen we girls lots of times in our bikini's, so there really wasn't , much left to his imagination. I want to keep the four-some friendship and hopefully we will go away to college together. I am sure we can share a 2-room apt without a lot of hanky-panky. Advise plz
2007-01-03 16:51:48 · 9 answers · asked by Becky J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not likely, someone will hook up with somebody by the time you are in high school. Where are your parents and why did you do that? You need attention that bad? Don't do that again , guys will be talking about that and they will think less of you and try to get in your pants.
2007-01-03 16:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to share a 2-room apartment with out a lot of hanky panky, you'll want to keep the nakedness to a minimum. If the guy isn't gay and starts dating one of you girls the four-way friendship may be in jeapordy.
No fix, just avoid that type of behavior in the future.
2007-01-04 00:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by mommy333 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously you are comfortable enough to live in an apartment together if you're not afraid to change clothes in front of them. Sounds to me like you might have more on your mind than friendship. I never put on an exhibition like that for my friends.
2007-01-04 00:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by juniperjasmine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is hanging out with 3 other girls then I'm guessing he's gay. Half of my male friends are gay and the other half not. I know that when you see 1 guy with lots of other giirls they are almost always gay so I wouldn't worry about being naked in front of him.
2007-01-04 00:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize and explain to your gfs you felt comforable but you were out of line.. you werent in the river u had a room to get dressed in .i think sharing a room in college is not good.
2007-01-04 00:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong...i once had a school project and invited my best friends home.. 2 boys and a girl and we started playing cards.. we ended up topless and kissing each other...OoOps...I never thougth I'd sau this..it was a secret anyway...
2007-01-04 00:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that big of a deal but I wouldn't make a habit of it. If no one makes a big thing out of it, don't worry about it.
2007-01-04 00:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's like seeing your brother walking around in his underwear, you don't get turned on.
2007-01-04 00:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just watch what you do and dont dont forget that guys will take what you give them
2007-01-04 00:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋