My FWB keeps wanting me to sleep over and spend the whole night with him cuddling whenever I go to his house. He gets really sad when I leave. Does this seem like typical FWB behavior? Could he be feeling something for me besides lust?
2007-01-03 16:48:13 · 16 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He most definitely might be getting hooked on you. If you two really like each other he might be feeling more. Sure he can feel something besides lust for you. Don't you feel good about yourself or do you feel unlovable? Talk it out with him so you know where you are headed in this relationship. If he's your friend I'm sure he'll be honest in what he says. Do YOU feel something besides lust for him? Good luck.
2007-01-03 16:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, thank you for perpetuating the "s l u t" stereotype girls already have a hard time with. Sleeping with someone for the sole purpose of sex is a horrible thing, which seems to be what your situation was. Now the boy is falling in love. Maybe he became a FWB with you because he loved you but had no other conceivable way of making a girl that is only interested in sex sick around. Stop being a sex fiend and get a real relationship.
2007-01-03 16:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk to him about it. My FWB turned into a 4 year marriage with two kids but most don't end that way. He may just be lonely or he could want more and just not sure if you do so you two should sit down and talk about it and see what might happen.
2007-01-03 16:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by momof3boys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm, you have a BOYFRIEND there, complete with the need to "break up" if you want to stop being a Friend with Benefits. That never works anyway, it's just an excuse for the guy to either get some free sex (free meaning without the pesky relationship) or bridge the "just friends" gap. The good news is that if you were friends first, your relationship can be much better :)
2007-01-03 16:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by mommy333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like your fwb has true feelings for you and just has not told you...maybe he thinks you dont have the same feelings...maybe u dont but maybe you do...only one way for him to find out right? you need to realize if you have the same feelings as him or not the find out if his feelings for u are really true...i had a fwb and we ended up getting together and was together for 3 years...hope this helps
2007-01-03 16:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by goodgirl_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with those that said, that the only way to know is to ask....I mean a FWB should be just that...Get on the phone when you need it and get it and bye....You know...But talk to him..Ask him...
2007-01-03 16:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by Maria A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. He might want to be more than FWB.
2007-01-03 16:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by L♥G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be wanting company - you are friends, after all. Or he's hoping for a morning go 'round, which is very likely.
2007-01-03 16:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitly the guy likes you one hundred% little question about it. he might want to easily be too shy to allow you to already know. or possibly its a lifeless ringer for he suggested. he doesnt desire a female friend today. it truly is extremely ******* stupid because why wouldnt you want a female friend....fool. i imagine he likes you. anyhow, strong success
2016-12-01 19:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by gagliano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the guy. maybe he is just really for lust or he really cares for you. talk to him about this issue and ask him honestly and tell him to answer you honestly too.
2007-01-03 16:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋