Ok... I have a boyfriend and we've been together for 4 yrs. We really love each ohter and we've been thru so much together... but there's always one little thing that gets in our way..jealousy! he's been working at a restaurant right now for 2 yrs... a few months ago a mall was open in the area and now he wants to work there.... ok. I don't want him to work there...why? he is gonna be getting off from work and will start to hang out with all the bit*ches and easy girls that goto malls to find guys to f*ck them..... am I being way too jealous?
2007-01-03 16:46:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
youre being rational cause you know that men are born horny , but they cant help it its a normal reaction, be mature about it just as long as he does not cheat on you, give him the benefit of the doubt if it starts getting fishy you can always end the relationship or sing the song irreplaceable by beyonce
2007-01-03 16:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're being a bit too overbearing. After four years, if you trust him, why not let him work where we wants? Sure, there are easy girls at malls, but I doubt that's the reason he wants to work there. Besides, just because they're there doesn't mean he's going to take them home. Just relax and let him work where he wants. As long as you two trust each other, it'll be fine.
2007-01-04 00:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by fl_omicron 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is going way too far. I think you should let him work at the mall. He is obviously in love with you since you two have together for 4 years.
2007-01-04 00:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jill G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealous: vigilant in guarding a possession
trust: being true; one in which confidence is placed
love: personal ties
My point is if you can't trust him, but you love him then you have to proclaim your concern as to why he shouldn't work there. Tell him you love him and mean it when you look him in the eyes, so he knows you're not kidding. And if he's sleeping around on you (leave) or maybe you two need to watch some porn together or try Kama Sutra, toys, etc
2007-01-04 00:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by lostinmontana406 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's the kind of guy you think will cheat on you let him apply for a job there but then also apply for a job ther so you can keep him close and make shore he doesn't cheat on you but he may feel uncomftable with you there, btu you can also ask him to tell the truth or it's over if you find out he;s cheating on you
2007-01-04 00:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by tigger_luv_u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealous? Yes. Insecure? Definitely!
If he is so bad that you can't trust him at a mall, then why are you with him?
Also: There is no love without trust.
2007-01-04 00:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by Drinking from a broken glass.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are being to jealous.
Jealously also shows that you may be insecure about yourself.
Jealously is a wasted emotion. All that worrying that you are doing, isn't going to change anything.
It doesn't matter where he works, lives, shops, eats etc.
If he wants to cheat, he is going to do it.
2007-01-04 00:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by Guess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
control urself and trust him if u know him good cuzz i think hes not going to fail u cuzz u had been 4 years togrther so omg lol its a lot of time
just keep and eye and u need to like hmmmm...
like to treat him godd and make him love u more
2007-01-04 00:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just being paranoid but if you love him you will let him work where he wants. there easy girls at reasturants to. theres girls everywhere. sorry to tell you but half the population of the world is made up of girls
2007-01-04 00:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No tell him u dont want him around all them girls if he loves you he will understand also let him know u trust him but dont let him work there!
2007-01-04 01:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by Sharika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋