People say that if you go around with pictures of hearts and daisies and long walks in your head, you just infatuate them, but if you care about them more than yourself and are willing to do anything for them, no matter how stupid or silly, that you are in love with them.
I think that you shouldn't have to choose between one or the other. Of course the willingness to do anything and the caring are most important, but the romance should be there also for that spark.
I don't see why the floweriness of it all can't go along with love.
2007-01-03 16:43:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you can act infatuated and be in love at the same time. people just like to spoil things.
2007-01-03 16:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know for me when i first fell in love I literally saw images of hearts in my head and heard corny romance music like you would hear in a romantic movie and i did some pretty stupid and silly stuff too and it was wonderful. You can have both but just have to remember that just because you stop hearing the music or seeing the hearts and flowers doesn't mean your love is dead.
2007-01-03 16:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by momof3boys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Stud, love is whatever you want it to be. It's like the senator said about pornography...I can't define it but I know it when I see it. But love has many stages, beginning with that heavy breathing, hafta-be-together feeling, tapering to gee-I-like-to-be-with-her and finally to we-really-go-well-together. If you feel good about yourself first, you can feel good about another person. Accept yourself and you can accept her. Accept her without judgment, and yourself without judgment and this takes you a long way toward permanency.
2007-01-03 16:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are horrible strategy. You will seem too easy, to clingy. Women see easily attained love as of little value.
Here me now, believe me when you get dumped.
2007-01-03 17:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally agree. need to have a little romance in every relationship!
2007-01-03 16:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by gidget2523 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats just a stero-type. there can be floweriness in love!
2007-01-03 16:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love you stud. Won't you be mines? Won't you be mines, please won't you be my stud.
2007-01-03 16:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by little lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋