He's my 1st love, I did give him all. yesterday, I phoned him, se said he was being out with his mother at that moment. But Her mother did answer the home phone when I called. I told him that, he said there must be some mistakes. I dont believe. He did lie me some times. I cant keep going on with the feeling that he's lying me. What should I do?
2007-01-03 16:39:36 · 7 answers · asked by Purslane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if in your relationship is lacking of trust to each other, i dont see any reason to continue that! unless of course, it is love! but when you truly love someone, trust is one thing that comprises your love for him!
2007-01-03 16:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your 6th sense, thats what my girlfriends always tell me. Then i told them, i dont have any sense... Haha...
Seriously, I have encountered the same scenario before and I did asked myself many times in what ways would we be able to know the truth? Has truth makes us a better person?
Suspicious grow... From where they grow? Answer is lack of communication and understanding. My previous relationship, we have the lack of communication and imagine we only meet once a week or at times fortnightly. His reason is due to work and also especially on weekends, i am unable to call him even on his cellphone. In the end, I gave up our relationship and I believe our misunderstandings grew and our feelings distance.
But most importantly, try not to give each other unnecessary stress. Have a good chat, give him time...
2007-01-03 16:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relations need co-operation, sympathy & tolerance and understanding. Just a call should not be the cause for disbelief. Circumstances may prevail and without knowing the facts/reason disbelief may cause unwanted diferences. I dont think, your faith is one days achievement and it should not be break for just one incident. Have patience, be cool and think well before taking any decision.
2007-01-03 17:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch old episodes of Three's Company, there's always something going on like this.
2007-01-03 16:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's no trust, there's no relationship. Why wast your time with something that's clearly not mutual. You deserve better.
2007-01-03 16:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by joecool123_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might not be what u think..Maybe he was saying that because he's secretly planning your surprise party or maybe planning to propose to you
But I'd call his mom for more investigating
2007-01-03 16:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by IceQueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU DONT TRUST HIM THEN YOU NEED TO TALK TO HIM
'ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL, AND THEN GO FROM THERE.
2007-01-03 16:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋