How to get the girl when she's afraid to be where you live?
Greetings, I live someplace and I have a girlfriend who lives someplace else. Sometime in the near future i would love for her to live with me, we both really want to be with each other and probally even be together forever. However there is one problem, she is afraid to live where I am. Something happened to her a while back and she's afraid that the person who caused this problem will come back and harm her again where I am. I could move to where she is but I am in college and kinda stuck here for atleast 4 years or so, can anyone offer some advice?
Edit: we live about 5 states apart and its a piticular person who lives the next state over who is really messed up and thats what she's afraid of.
2007-01-03 16:39:03 · 5 answers · asked by DeviantDante 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It think she is being irrational, how does the person even know she moved there? Sounds like she needs to deal with her emotional trauma and seek therapy before she does anything.
2007-01-03 16:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be APBT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to make a few assumptions here, if I'm wrong please only take advice that is relevant. I'm not trying to offend you, but young men are more horny than brains.
Wait four years, than re-ask this question. You won't, you will have figured out that either:
1) You are too young to be living with a girl @ 18 (or close to that).
2) You are adult enough after college to know how to call the cops and defend your house from crazy people.
3) Going after women who have psycho ex's isn't a good idea (since she can't let go and probably still talks to him). How else would he know about all this?????
4) You're young and thinking with the wrong head, GO TO SCHOOL!
I did what you are wanting to do when I started and attended college. Actually I did it a few times, it is rarely a good idea and usually blows up in your face.
Whatever you decide, good luck!
2007-01-04 00:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by PKs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be living together. Let her be where she is and you focus on school. In time maybe she will get over her fear but give it time, you are trying to move too fast.
2007-01-04 00:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u wiling to protect her at all cost?
then tell her that, tell her to trust you! if she trusts you then she would move with you in your apartment. Also tell her that she should face her fears..
2007-01-04 00:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, how would that person know if she moves to your state??
2007-01-04 00:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋