are girls attracted to money?

Question

i have no skills with women, im short, im boring, and my personality sucks, and oh yea im not really very good looking. ive never had sex with, kissed, or even hugged a girl in my life. i figure rather than loathing myself for things somewhat out of my control i should concentrate on my real passion which is finance. i have very good financial sense and have already made around 25 grand on the currency exchange and im 18 years old. ive never had any female attention and although i feel craving it is a sign of weakness i still do want it for some reason. even for a girl to just care about me, or even pretend like she does. do you think money will accomplish this?

Answer 1

No... the kind of girl who wants you for money will make your LIFE A MiSERY.
Women who like money tend to be possession oriented and are actually like a curse. Have you spent time with possession oriented people? They only talk about themselves, they put others down and are very negative. YUCK

Your strategy should be to start talking to the girls who are tier 2... not the really hot ones but the smart ones or the nice ones... The really hot ones get so much attention, they might not have time to get to know you... You want a girl who will give you time to develop something special. Don't worry about your looks... as long as you have good grooming, girls don't care about your looks.

It is really worth it to have a deep relationship with a woman. Not just for the physical part, but also for the emotional support too.

Stay away from the temptation to use the money to attract a gf. It is guaranteed to backfire on your gentle spirit.
Good luck

Answer 2

Attracted To Money

Answer 3

Money can't buy you the love of a GOOD woman, but it can make things a lot easier. Approach girls on a regular basis, get used to the idea of rejection and get over it. Find an activity outside of school where you will be exposed to girls that you don't go to school with, like some kind of lessons or a club. Get some interests! If you have interests and activities that you enjoy, you will have things to talk about which will cover up your sucky personality and help cure your boringness. Keep yourself clean and well groomed, you're lucky here, girls really don't care how good looking a man is. Face it MOST men are ugly.
Good luck, and keep up the investing, money can't hurt!

Answer 4

First of all you're very young and sound way too self deprecating- hope this makes you feel better to know that women in general do not care about mens' looks as much as men do about womens'- women care more about mens' personalities and how they make themselves feel. That being said, I think every person can improve the way they look and feel about themselves by a. learning to love themselves b. then focusing on the exterior such as getting a new haircut, buying a nice wardrobe, etc.
I say go after financial planning because you like it and it will build your self confidence, not to attract women, because in the end self-confidence is what is deemed attractive.
Don't beat yourself down too much- remember there is someone out there for everyone- I'm sure a special gal will appreciate the good qualities you possess- just treat yourself with the respect you deserve and everything else willl follow

Answer 5

money is attractive to everyone, not only to girls. But a persons morals and wisdom defines the degree of control in handling it. Would you rather have a girl who's attracted only with yer wallet?
You'll never be happy with her, i swear. Unless what makes you happy is just a casual sex!

Why not try to build confidence first in what you are good at, focus on your strengths... read alot so when youre with a girl you'll know what you'll be talking about. Have a healthy social life.
Dare yourself once in a while, do something new, explore! If you could go to the gym, do so. Listen to music, the ones you like and those you don't like...listening to songs gives you ideas of what other people are thinking. Talk to brilliant people and don't be afraid to ask. Go to places you've never been to before and have fun. The more you get experiences, the more confident you'll become. And who knows, you'll meet the girl for you during your trip on a road to a new you...

Answer 6

Well It's some body, for Every Body!!! sure some girls like a man with money!! but when the money runs out then so dose u, but if u have to buy love, then i really don't think ur need it, U are only 18 and u have a long ways to go, but if u do think about buying a girl u will Regret it in a long run!!! so smile and keep your head up!!!!

Answer 7

Everyone is attracted to money. You'll get the wrong girls if you bait them with cash. So if you don't mind the pretending, you'll accomplish that.

There is nothing like something genuine. Don't sell yourself short. If you can make the ladies (or anyone) laugh, you're a lot further than you think. But you gotta have a better outlook on yourself. We all feel quite ordinary and powerless sometimes, so don't feel alone.

Check out this one guy named Doc Love. I've found his advice pretty spot on and he's a good place to start.

http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove/

Good luck, man.

Answer 8

Don't try so hard, maybe try to play it cool and be friends with girls first. If you're short there are tons and tons of short women, if you think your personality sucks you need to build up your confidence because not having any confidence is a major turn off!!! If you don't like yourself how will anyone else like you? Do you really want someone to be with you just because you have a lot of money? Sure money is great but someone should like you for you-- not your cash.

Answer 9

Gals are by and in large attracted to power and confidence generally. But there is someone for everyone - including the homely and taciturn. I would recommend that you get yourself some group therapy to work on your confidence. Eventually you are going to have to buck up and ask the girls out and suffer the fallout of the inevitible "No's" and you'll need support through that process if you lack as much confidence as you say you do. Eventually you will find someone. But it won't be because of your money alone - unless you buy hookers.

Answer 10

Women are attracted to money definitely and if they tell you any different they're lying. It gets more important to them as they get older too. But really you can't really blame them because women have to have security in their life too. I think they begin to appreciate men that can support them and potentially a family. Of course this isn't achieved solely through money and you are going to need a lot more than 25 grand anyway. You need to try and be the complete package.