What are the Do's & Dont's when you go out with a girl for a date first time ever?

Answer 1

Shut up and let her do the talking. You ask ?'s about her and her only. Do not talk about yourself unless if she asked you something. (my freinds)

Only offer her if she would like you to pay for the meal and make sure she's ok with it if she sais that she would pay for her own. On the second you can say "my treat". And pay for it. (someone I know who has a lot of girlfriend)

Answer 2

Don't name drop, and don't talk about how you dated "this model" one time. I hate that shi*. Don't pretend you have more money than you actually do. Don't push for physical stuff if she says no. Don't buy her a drink if she says she doesn't want one. Don't get shi* faced.

As far what the lady said above - only if she's the traditional type. I'm not. You can say bad words on a first date with me as long as it isn't over the top. You can talk about religion as long as you aren't extremely religious (because I'm NOT religious).

Answer 3

DO

Give her a gift, be nice, talk ask her what she would like for dinner, pay for everytime (only to a certain extent),

DON'T

don't talk about sports unless you know she's intrusted in sports to, don't sit with your legs apart (some girls will get the wrong imprestion), joke around with friends in front of her it gives them a really bad feeling of guilt.

Answer 4

1: open doors.
2:make good conversations.
3 :think of what things u both would like to do.
4:see what things u both have in commen.
5:(don't) show off (be your self).
6:give her a rose or adozen.
7:after the date u walk her to the door maybe a kiss afterwards.
thats what i think you should do best of luck.

Answer 5

Do - meet her there. Do - part ways at a decent hour. Do - set your next date.

Don't - talk about your ex. Don't - get drunk. Don't - answer your cell phone.

Leave something to be desired for the next date, but don't let her leave wondering when she'll see you next, if ever.

Answer 6

** Here are a few cool dating ideas that lots of guys miss: BOWLING is great. It is even better if you don't bowl well. Don't bring your own ball and your wrist brace -- save that BS for your buddies. If you're over 21, you can order drinks. It is cheap. You get to mess up and poke a little fun at yourself. You REALLY get lots and lots of opportunities to bust on her in a cocky and funny way. She'll love it! LASER TAG is a really good one for the same reasons as above. It is physical and you can "hunt her down" in the dark. You will get sweaty though, but that opens up room for jokes that are easily turned sexual. There are opportunities for her to become comfortable with being close to you in the dark and maybe some touching. It is intense, exciting, and allows for some pseudo competition which is great. GO-KART RACING is another action packed and thrilling date. You get to compete with her, busting on her all the time. You can also use some self-deprecating humor. It is physical, intense and exciting. Like laser tag, it gets the juices flowing. ROLLER SKATING is great for the same reasons. You don't have to be good at it either. If you come across as a self-confident DJ with your crap together, it is not at all bad to look just a little foolish. Act totally confident and comfortable while you are a bit vulnerable out there on the rink. She will love it. SHOOTING POOL is another good one. It is actually DOING something. You get to see her from all sorts of angles. This is a great opportunity to kid her about trying to tease you or trying to make you look at her butt. You tell her to "stop bending over" that she's "just too obvious" with it. She will do the same to you. There is also the whole teaching her how to hold the stick routine. She might be a pool shark, but she might act confused and you get to get close with her and reach around her to show her. You can have a beer or two and once again, laugh at yourself and her. Bet her on games -- loser buys the next round. Then beat her. Then bust on her for having to buy your beer! Act like it's the best beer in the world because it's a VICTORY BEER! She'll love it! Notice that all of these are physical activities that get you and her up off your rears and doing something. This gets the endorphins flowing which heightens the excitement of it all, which gives her the feelings of being attracted to you. Also, it is just plain fun! There are opportunities to "high five" each other, maybe touch a little more than would normally be considered appropriate, and plenty of opportunity for laughing at each other and creating an atmosphere of enjoyment without having to feel like you are constantly trying to figure out what to say next. I am 35, and these may sound like dates for teenagers, but most adult women will REALLY appreciate it! They will feel like they are kids again. It forces them to open up, let loose, and have fun. Take a woman from her mid 20's to early 30's to play laser tag or to race go-karts and YOU will be her definition of a fun and exciting guy! Everyone is doing dinner and a movie, and you pull out BIG FUN like this! You will definitely stand out from the crowd!

Answer 7

Let her do AT LEAST half the talking.

Don't try to set the county speed record for taking off a bra.

Go to an ordinary restaurant - unless she has told you she loves sushi.

Answer 8

Do: be a gentleman
Do: find a topic to talk about that you both like
Do: be nice and talk casual
Do: just relax and be yourself (also be normal!)
Don't:don't talk about sex or a passionate relationship. (it's just the first date!)
Don't: talk on your cell phone while you're dating. (that's rude!)
Don't: kiss her on the first date. (great things take time, wait for her)

Answer 9

Do
- be a gentleman
- compliment on the way she looks
- be untalkative (but not quiet)
- respond
- listen
- make the eye contact
- pay the restaurant
- do not eat too much
- tease her

Dont
- do not over compliment
- make her feel bad
- be serious

Answer 10

do compliment on what she wears or how she looks.. do not grope her - do keep chit chat to informational questions about her.. like what does she like her interests.. so you have something to plan on your next date.. do not chew with your mouth open burp or have bad manners.. if you go out to eat.. do have good hygeine on your breath and use deodorant.. ( yea some guys dont brush their teeth before date and dont use deodorant ) do smile to set her at ease.. do not ask her to personal questions or talkk about sex or gossip about any one she knows..do be polite open doors for her and do not be boring if your out of things to say or do call it a night tell her thanks and you will call her and DO THAT..