i'm so nervous!!!! any pointer would be appreciated
2007-01-03 16:30:39 · 13 answers · asked by bearsfan96 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a freind who has a freind who knows a freind who knows a guy who has a girlfreind who has a guy freind who had a freind who has a freind who knows a freind who knows a guy who has a girlfreind who has a guy freind who had a freind as a girlfreind who said dont kiss on the first date.
2007-01-03 16:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
** Just Kiss Her ** I have a friend who is just a natural with people. It's as though he has this compulsion to talk to whoever he finds within ten feet of himself. He's funny and a fantastic conversationalist. Despite this rare and coveted gift, however, he just has no luck with women. When we were discussing his maligned fortune, he said he had a hard time "closing the deal," asking me how I went from talking to a girl at the bar to pressing her up against the jukebox. He was shocked by my answer... "I just kiss her." You can talk to a girl for an hour and be no closer to your goal. Or, you can open the conversation amicably, convert to flirting, and if she responds favorably, just kiss her. If she's receptive at all, she'll be impressed you ACTED, and chances are she'll kiss you back. If she pushes you away, you just saved yourself an hour of wasted conversation, and you're free to try again with someone else. Yes, it is that simple.
2007-01-03 16:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's a pointer for you. Be honest with her. If she laugh at you for more than just a cute embarassing time, kick her to the curb. If she's still interested, let her teach you how to kiss. You will be an easy learner, as you will have no previous bad habits to be beaten out (tongue to early, for instance... boys...). Also, face sucking tends to be a no-no, but thats a personal thing.
2007-01-03 16:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Donot ask to kiss her.
Kissing is very emotional.
By asking you are making it cognitive.
Pay attention to her body language.
The body sometimes reveal things that we don't verbally communicate.
Pay close attention to her shoulders, are they shrugged when you are near her. (if so, she is on the defensive and won't be open to being kissed)
If her shoulders are relaxed than she might be open to a kiss.
Donot be aggressive when kissing her. But don't be a wimp.
Remember to lean in 90% of the way on the kiss. She should meet you the other 10%. I know its from Hitch the movie but it works.
2007-01-03 16:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Guess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't open your mouth wide. Keep your lips relaxed. While she is talking, look at her nose to see if you need to tilt your head in order to kiss her. (It looks like you are looking into her eyes when actually you are not). When the time comes lick your lips before so you don't have the uncomfortable sticky lip thing. Be sure when you kiss her that you think of every good emotion you have for her. She can feel it I promise.
2007-01-03 16:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by Eruthiadwen J 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If this is your first date with this girl, then i don't think you should kiss her because it might scare her away. If you must kiss her just give a light kiss on her cheek if shes interested.
2007-01-03 16:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont kiss on the first date. and just relax when you finaly think its right just lean in slowly
2007-01-03 16:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by warlord_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice on the back of your hand.
2007-01-03 16:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by Travis R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just find another girl like you who hasnt had much experience and then you can teach each other.
2007-01-03 16:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she allows you to kiss her, keep it simple. On the cheek or a short one on the lips. Do not tongue please.
2007-01-03 16:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋