my letter to my bf does it sound ok?

Question

i cant post it on here as it 2000 word http://www.golivewire.com/forums/peer-437165-support-0.html it on this link though can you tell me you thoughts i can send the letter to you if you dont wanna follow the link

here the letter

When you asked me out I was so happy as from the first moment I met u I knew you had to be mine. You still make me happy but at moment when im alone and have time to think I get upset and I want to talk about things with you but I cant as you are busy and when I get to see you I get scared and don’t bring the problems up.

First I going to tell you something that no one else knows but it might explain why I get a bit needy sometimes ive had some bad experiances with men ive been mentally abused, cheated on, used and ive even been forced into sexual acts but I don’t want to talk about them as they my past and I want them to stay there but this is why I become needy sometimes as I feel safe when your around me.

The next is I have some question and possible solutions to your problems

As I have pointed out before you seem distant to me recently I understand it because of work and stuff like that but it leaves me feeling slightly forgotten

I have a solution to this how about we have one time a week where we phone each other e.g. Saturday morning before we both have work or Tuesday afternoons when I have frees and we have a minimum time of 10 minutes where we just talk.

I would love to see you move often but I understand with work it will be hard but I have a idea on Tuesday I have frees in the afternoons and Im thinking maybe I can come and meet you after work at 2 and we hang even if it only for 30 minutes.

Can I ask though why all a sudden when we do see each other you don’t want to meet in town or outside my work anymore?

Can I also ask what is your relationship with 11111 and why do you let her get away with invading my privacy so much because I feel violated that she trying to split us up as using my personal thoughts and feelings to attempt to do it.

Now on to the harder stuff

You say you can’t dump 22222 because you need a place to stay is there a reason that stopping you going back to your mums?

Have you got mates or can you stay at your brothers?

Do you really intend on dumping 22222 or do you just like the whole having 2 girlfriends thing?

Have you talk to 22222 mum and explained to her that you fear you feelings for 22222 are fading but are scared to do anything in fear of being kicked out the house and you don’t want to hurt 22222 by leading her along for too long as she might be understanding and let you stay and make sure you promise to be 22222 best mate and be for her when she needs you but not as a boyfriend.

When you said you loved me did you really mean it? I did when I said it to you and you have been the first guy that ive said it to.

I think that is all I need to talk about."

Answer 1

whoa there. no, your letter doesn't sound okay. you're dating a guy who has put you on the back burner for what he says is work but he's got a girlfriend (22222) and this other girl that he talks to (11111) and you're hanging on to this guy like he's Brad Frakking Pitt. come on, girlfriend. wake up and smell your boyfriend! this guy is totally stringing you along. drop him! don't hesitate, don't write him a letter, don't call him up... just walk away from this disaster. WHEN he calls you (because he will) then tell him you're done. and hang up. and never answer his calls again.

Answer 2

Good letter. Make sure you use spell check before you send it though. It seems to me like you need to move on. this gent has more than one love in his life and right now you are not the number one. You seem like a pretty smart person who deserves mor love, respect and admiration that this chump is not giving you. Get out there and live life find out who you are and find out how you deserve to be treated.

Answer 3

hmm well that's sound's like a Major Problem I'd say go for it but that might not be a good idea but by all means go ahead and send that to him and see what happens then write back to Yahoo Answers and I'll tell you what I think but tell us what he Say's it will me help you more but don't worry I'll see your Question if you put one on here again

Answer 4

i read whole letter and i am impressed by you.

u r such a nice gal.

i dont think that guy deserves to have you. u r too good.

as far as letter is concerned, its a beautiful one and states ur points clearly. i hope that guy got some brain and does as u say.

Answer 5

That is a really good letter. You are getting your point across and asserting yourself at the same time! Good for you!!

Answer 6

how can you share him like that? he is not worth the hurt. you should find a man who can give all his attention to you and only you. let me tell you it is so wonderful knowing my man is mine and all mine. you said that he is the only man you have ever told that you love. that has got to be hard. but you deserve someone devoted to just you.

Answer 7

if you could send me the letter and ill leave you a an answer to give you my thoughts

Answer 8

perfect dont change a thing i almost cried uh-oh here comes the water works

Answer 9

Sorry I couldn't read all that . Too much drama 4 me .

Answer 10

I'm sorry, but i really think you gotta dump this guy...2 gf's!!