A guy I really like says he doens't see me as wife material because Im too conservative for him.
What in the world does that mean ?
I thought men like to marry nice girls.
And when I told him how Im creative and free spirited and love intimacy he didnt believe me.
I seem sweet on the outside but am anything but conservative.
What did he mean when he said that ?
2007-01-03 16:11:24 · 14 answers · asked by Leea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not husband material, he should've said. Pride kept him from saying it.
2007-01-03 16:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Metro 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely.. in line with risk you might have the plush of being a "trophy spouse"!! different than for that, i think of spouse fabric is: a million. you like your companion previous all people else 2. you will do something for him 3. you supply up a occasion in the experience that your love is ill (i understand... it sucks... yet you already know he would do the comparable for you) 4. once you're undesirable... you be taught anf develop from that. once you're prosperous... you mirror together on each and every of the problem you went by using to get there what spouse fabric isn't: a million. dinner on time each and every night 2. continuously cleansing 3. agreeing including your companion for each little thing 4. purely making your companion happy a reliable spouse or husband is there for their companion together as nonetheless being their very own defined person.
2016-10-29 23:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn,t see you as wife material because he wants a worldly woman that has slept around a lot....Men d like to marry nice girls,but he is not a nice man.I wuld never try to convince this man of anything,never make excuses for being a nice decent woman....Let him go out and find his wild woman and in a few months she will have an affair on him......thats all i can possibly think of.....Unless hes so bad he thinks you are too good for him,in that case you probably are.....Move on dear you can do much better...
2007-01-03 16:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by slickcut 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what he meant. He probably doesn't know what he meant, So, he said something confusing but got the message across that your are not his type. Some men like to marry girls they can dominate and control and it makes them creeps. There are men (like me) who do like nice girls. Maybe he wants a wild woman, but it takes a great guy to bring out the wildness that a nice girl so sweetly keeps just under the surface.
2007-01-03 16:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it depends on the age of this guy you speak of. if he's 18 - 30, you can forget everything that's coming out of his mouth because it's a load of horse hockey. first of all, guys between this age range don't even know what it is they want out of a wife. this guy might not even be looking for a bride but he's telling you this to see how this is going to affect you. in other words, he's playing games with your head. don't let any one of these thick-headed buffoons change you. if he can't see you for who you are or if he doesn't accept you for who you are, then he's not worth your time and energy.
2007-01-03 16:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not all of us want to marry a "nice" girl. I married a girl that held nothing back and was willing to try anything. Maybe you are just inexperienced. Read a bunch of hard core erotica and get some tips on how to really rock him. Be open to new ideas. Give him a chance. He is giving you a clue as to what he wants.
2007-01-03 16:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Being too conservative is really vague and frankly it doesn't really make sense. I think he was just trying to find a nice way to tell you something.
2007-01-03 16:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by bunny_eared_lum 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that he is setting you up for something, perhaps to be extreme, two girls and a guy. anyone who looks for material in a wife rather than someone he loves is a loser and you should forget him and find someone too busy caring for you to be judging you.
2007-01-03 16:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That he's an idiot that obviously has not been paying much attention to who you really are.
Maybe he'll start to notice you more after that conversation.
2007-01-03 16:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by Maine kitten 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really want him show him. Tie him up and tease him until he can't take anymore.. then say your not sex material !!!!
It will make him think about you alot more.
2007-01-03 16:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋