I've been hanging out with this guy- who's HOTT- and we kiss/makeout when we hang out together and just pretty much party and have fun. We get along really well and just have an awesome time when we're together. I'm not really looking for a relationship so it's not like I'm seeing him as a possible boyfriend or anything. The only thing is that he has this like I wouldn't call her a girlfriend its just like this girl they've been on and off for the last two years (one of those on and off relationships). Is it bad that I'm hanging out with him and I guess kind of hooking up with him?
he's the one that calls me to hang out so I'm not really chasing him around. But I'm pretty sure that this girl is like obsessed with him and would probably try to hurt me if she found out and would see me as the "other girl" I guess. Am I a horrible person or something for hanging out with him?
2007-01-03 16:08:46 · 4 answers · asked by ohbabyohbaby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you are doing anything wrong. Stop beating yourself up. However, if you are this torn up about it, maybe you should just ask this guy how serious he is with the other woman. If you get the sense that they are involved, and you feel guilty, then maybe you and this guy can spend time together without being physical. Or, go out and find someone else you can hook up with, without feeling guilty.
2007-01-03 16:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a bad person, first of all! IF he is with someone on and off, he is with someone, 2 years!!! Relationships sometimes are like that, weird!! You also know that this girl may be NUTS, or go nuts for him? FORGET THAT ****! You sound like a nice girl, believe me there is someone out there. He wont care cause hes got 2 to mess with. Or keep doing what you doing till you get caught!{ Everything done in the darkness shall come forth unto the light}. Just like murders or anything else eventually someone will find out. Laters!
2007-01-04 00:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by julius d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but you are like his booty call. Why do you want to hang out with a who is seeing the other girl. Who care if he is hot? You mean nothing to him. Don't you want a guy who cares for you and fall in love with you? Move on!
2007-01-04 00:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, you're a whore!
2007-01-04 00:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋