Ok, im so confused right now. I would tell the whole entire story but thatd take to long. See, me and me and this guy have known eachother for like 4 years, on of those years we went out..the problem was, he never talked to me. So long time later we broke up. I had always obssesed over him all the time after that though.i spent like 3 years of my life trying to get with him. he always acted like he didnt care, he hurt me bad. I even ened up self injuring myself because of him. A couple days ago we were talking and i asked him why we never talked when we went out, ive asked him before but i had forgot what he said. he got mad at me for asking and he said it was because he was nervous and that one of my best friends always got in the way. then we had an argumen about it.He said he had went to a counslouer while his parents were getting a divorce, they said he was mentally sick. I want to know what do i do.i still have slight feelings for him but im not sure i have a bf. but im lost..
2007-01-03 16:03:39 · 4 answers · asked by lovebug3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't sound like he's worth it or that he deserves you. Find someone else who does! Don't spend all your time staring at a closed window when a door is open.
2007-01-03 16:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by kakolikapiha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok it seems that u need to keep moving forward. keep going you can do it. going back into things with him will only bring you down and put you in reverse. stay strong and have pride in urself. believe in urself and think about how many more times her hurt u then made u feel special or happy. i know its hard believe me but u need to keep reminded yourself how much this kid hurt u and how much time u wasted while trying to figure him out. don't lower ur standards just because ur lonely. don't waste ur time and even if the bf u have right now doesn't mean that much to u stick with him he will keep ur mind interested and off off this kid who obviously has a lot of problems and only brought the worst out in you and only made to be someone you never want to be like! sorry this is a lot haha but ive had some really bad experiences and learned a lot! trust me and i believe in u!
2007-01-04 00:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by annette1911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are to osbssed i mean is this guy really that good maybe you need to date more guys
2007-01-04 00:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone especially if he knows he hasmental issues. you don't need any chaos.
2007-01-04 00:23:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋